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So my theory is that men and women both want the best they can get, women usually have the upper hand in the dating game and get to choose much more and have higher standards, under one condition only : the woman has to be Very attractive ( these help too loyal, doesn't sleep around, good personality) .

no one wants a boring or bad personality but women talking about how they want a good personality only is (and no offense) BS, the moment a guy with looks and power shows up personality stops being as important as it used to be, not saying that any girl wants to be a doormat but most girls with options will go to the best guy who shows interest in them.

Its easy justifying getting engaged to the CEO of microsoft who happens to be 6'2 (my height lol), good looking and confident, not super nice but he's good.

now marrying the guy who works at walmart, is 30 lbs overweight and is nice is not ideal for most girls, usually (what i have noticed) is that theyre not attractive, sleep around or their background makes guys avoid them so they settle for less.

My point is, women (and men) want the best so they justify marrying the hot and rich guy by saying how great his personality is, sometimes he is actually nice sometimes he's not, men dont mind rejecting a girl based on looks and admitting it, but women... they start talking about personality but lets face it, actions speak louder that words.

People often say that people pair up with those that are like minded, and that the good girl pairs up with the good guy and party girl with party guy etc. However, this is an ideal concept and the world is anything but ideal. The reality is that people don't often pair up with those of like minded. And in the case of women being good or bad really doesn't hold much weight when it comes to their attraction towards men. What takes paramount is looks, money and status.

So your a good man. However, you are born average looks and you don't have high social status or wealth. Overall around your time in your early -mid 20's you won't get a good woman to look at you. The reason is because the good woman would be chased by and/or pursue after better looking men, rich men and/or more popular men than you for relationships and looks (hypergamy).
So as a good man your left out with a choice of continuing the course with a lack of love or switching from going after decent women for girlfriends and target lower quality women.

So should good men who are having a hard time getting the good, woman and switch to lower quality women for love?

Example:
Rather than going for a girl who is nice, decent, doesn't sleep around and come from a good family with morals and values maybe start being more open to date a girl who is a stripper and has loose morals and values on things. Tends to be very sexually open also.

What you guys think?