You be yourself - don't try to put on weight just so your boyfriend would find you more sexually or phisically appealing. If you know he's honest by nature and says he finds you attractive too, then please, don't fret.
Just enjoy your time with him and don't over analize it. You'll just mess up the relationship - your hesitance and what might become an obsession over your bf's preference might be the thing to drive him away from you in the end...
So just be yourself and enjoy what you have right now. Don't worry about tomorrow...
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If he has been honest with you then I think that it is fine to accept his words. He is with you for a reason. He cares for you and loves you the way you are. If he was unhappy with your appearance then he would have said it and if that was the case then you would deserve someone who finds you to look perfect the way you do.
Don't change yourself to suit what you think he wants and remember he and you chose each other for a reason and you are still together for a reason. I would suggest really talking to him and tell him of your insecurities. If he loves you, he'll want you to feel comfortable and beautiful.
If he shares that with you, he has already thought a lot about his special preferences. So probably he is not happy with it but knows that what he actually likes is not "nice" for our society.
Anyways, there could be two possibilities:
1) he accepts you and forgets about the topic (I would say improbable)
2) he accepts you now but in the long term he tries to find what he really likes -> over
Maybe I am wrong, but that's what I can say from experience
The only issue here are your insecurities and not his preference. He is together with you. You explain him being loyal. The rest is just in your head.
Get over yourself and understand that he is together with YOU and not with some random fat woman.
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If he doesn't love and appreciate you for you, then it's not a good fit. The seed of doubt is placed, and resentment might grow, or worse. If you are thinking this, then maybe it would be best to break it off. But if you think he loves you for you, then stick with him.
He was honest with you, reciprocate and be honest with him that this worries you. He might be testing you, though that would be pretty s****y of him. And if you can't reconcile, go your separate ways. If he likes your personality, I don't see what his damn problem is except he isn't interested in a healthy relationship.
People have more than one type. I dont think he would be dating you at all if he was not attracted to you. He SHOULD be able to fight the urge to cheat.
Decide if you think he has strong enough morals to stay monogamous with you and how much you really want him... how much you are willing to risk.He is a tall guy and your short. I can understand if he is into ashley graham types.
Do your part for humanity: leave him so the fat girls can get some loving...
Honestly I would break up with him. You don't always want to have that in the back of your head. It's not healthy.
As I mentioned earlier in the last incarnation of this question, he needs to go.
Does he like sum BBW shi? or fat ass booty? If he likes fat ass booty then, sorry but yeah he is right ;D
You need to let him go. This isn't a healthy relationship
Maybe you should break up. So you both can be happy.
This is definitely going to be an on going topic among women.
Only people that like fat chicks are ones who think they can't get skinny chicks
You sound good the way you are so don't try to gain weight for him
"Feminine tomboy"
That's an oxymoron.He wouldn't be with you if he wasn't.
He's with you isn't he? Relax.
5'4 is short? I am 5'3 and a man, I am dwarf?
How much do you weigh?
He needs to go.
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