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We are in a long distance relationship with someone living in NZ and is from my home country only. It's been a month now. And he asked me what my goals are and I said I'm not sure but want to do mba in my home country and work here where as he is in NZ and is calling me there. He said me I should take loan to pay for fees of NZ masters and come there and stay with him and do masters in NZ and that I shouldn't worry about job thingy. So bdw, I'm an introvert and have less friends and he was like name three friends and I just have one best friend to be honest and he asked me why I don't have friends. I am very reserved and he has problem with me not having friends stating how will I grow despite having a good job and that I won't be able to survive in corporate world. He said me thrice that in home country, you're paid less and abroad you're not and that I should come to NZ. He asked me why i, 23 year old girl not getting promoted and i said that it's p been a year and a half. He is 24 and asked me why no wfh for me and I said the reason that I don't have access to those softwares at home and will resume office after lockdown gets over coz here still everything is shut. He said that he'll leave me if he gets someone like him. I asked him why not leave me right away and he said that he doesn't have anyone rn. He don't have time to find one. He wouldn't leave me because he loves me. Such contradictory statements. He suddenly talked about pre-nup that he'll make me sign before marriage stating I won't get a single penny after divorce that made me wonder why he talked to me like that. He aslo mentioned about the break up part and asked me if I want to break up and I said that if you have problem with me, you should break up and make decision right away. Then he says he doesn't wanna break up. I totally don't understand what to do. Should I break up?

So he seems to be serious about the relationship and evern introduced me to his mom but when I asked him if they accept me, he says "not sure" it's been like a month to our relationship. So is he genuine? What say? Everything looks perfect and he shares his stuff with me and tells me I love you every day and it feels dam good. I don't know if it will last longer. What if he leaves me? He is like I tell people ( girls) that I already have a girlfriend and so pls don't flirt with me and just value the friendship. I felt dam good. It feels like a dream. I asked him why he loves me, he said I don't know, I just fell for you. So my mum got hospitalized and he told his mum and his mum called me and it felt good to talk to her. So in first 3 days, he asked me to make my relationship status public and I did it " only viewed to friends" and his was " public" on fb and on insta also he asked me to keep each other's ID which I did. I feel secure. So you think he is serious about me?

so i’ll start from the beginning. this guy used to date one girl i knew. i met him because of that. but last year i ended a long relationship i had, and when she found out my ex was single, she flirted with him. it hurted me but i carried on with my life. anyways, a while ago, this guy she used to date started talking to me. at first i was kinda wondering why was he talking to me, but anyways, we talked like a lot. he told me a lot of things about his life, what he will study, etc. i was kinda liking him until one night like at 1 am he tells me that he liked talking to me and that i was interesting to him. i said the same about him. he told me he was going to sleep and wishes me a good night. he’s 18 years old by the way, and i’ll turn 18 next month. so, next day he didn't start the conversation. maybe it was because he read my texts before going to sleep. i waited a day and decided to answer to his instagram story that it was multiple photos of puppies, telling his followers that he was sad bc he couldn’t keep them. i answered with a good vibe text, like “they’re going to get adopted by a loving family” and more stuff showing support. so he read them but didn't answer. he has been online sometimes after that, it just doesn’t fit for me that he said a thing one day and then he does this. at first i was scared that his ex manipulated him when somehow she found out he was talking to me, but i don’t believe that honestly. i dont know if i should try again in a few weeks or what. pls could you give me some advice?