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Well, I often end up in a situation where I have to ask this guy out myself, which really bothers me, because it makes me feel like I am unwanted and forcing him to date me! I know for sure he's interested, but when I try to create a convienient window for him to ask me out - he just dodges it! He's either oblivious af, shy af or a playboy af and I'm getting really effing impatient! Normally I would have dropped the issue already but he's just way too cute. So pls - if any of you been in my shoes - share your stories and let me learn how to deal with this ninja. thnx!

There's a guy I've liked since I first met him. Similar personalities, etc. In our casual/friendly interactions, I'd like to know him better. And then I learned he had a girlfriend.

Now I am not looking to break up anyone's relationship. I've got too much self-respect, respect for him, etc. to be that 'desperate'. Even if there has been passing indication these two merely got together because there was no one else available at the time.

Now the thing is, there are times when he lets it "slip" that he's interested in me. His behaviour, way of speech, etc. changes. He doesn't do this with every gal. Enough a time when he said "hello there" in such a way as I was coming up to the outside patio he made the other people/friends he was with stop their conversations & all turn to see who he addressed so.

Again I'm not looking to break up anyone's relationship. It's just not me. I can't do it morally. So when he gives these hints I just react as I would anyone else. No overly flirtatious behavior, etc. I am, all in all, friendly.

So should I just move on or wait it out & see?