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Jeez I better make this anonymous.

For the past 8 months or so, I've been much more... Let's say... Touchy feely I guess? Imma guy but recently I've had an extremely strong urge to... Like... Protect cute things, wich of course is normal but not to the magnitude I'm fealin' it... I think.

Jeez this is so cringey I'm sorry if yer readin' this.

For example; I have a cat, and ya know, cats are cute. But recently I've found myself harrasin' em a lot more recently, I don't mean beatin' him of course, but juz treatin' em like a baby ya know? Playin' with his paws, messin' with his ears, usin' em as a pillow; but like, obsessively. I'm talking like an hour a day, and naturally, he don't like me all too much anymore.

But about 4 months ago, it's been gettin' stronger!
It's now a very strong urge (especially at night) to hold something and make it feal loved and protected like a pillow or somethin'(I don't use my cat, he really don't like it). It's powerful enough that I feal anxious and quite loanly in bed and can't sleep. Even during the day I'm having a hard time focusing on meh studdies ya know? Now my sleepin' posture and school is all fricked cause of it. To be specific, I feal it mostly in my upper chest.

I would like to put a lot of emphasis on the fact that this ain't sexual or anythin', it's more a adoring/endearing fealin' ya know?

In conclusion, my back hurts, focus is bad, and my cat hates me cause I'm weird or somethin'. My questions are; is this normal? Is this wierd? How do I compensate for whatever this weird thing is? And does the location of this fealin' have significance?

I'm guessin' it's hormones or just straight up loanlyness, but I'm hopin' y'all got some sort'a insight on this eh?

I'm Ticklish: So... Yah, this isn't something I usually admit because as soon as I tell people, what do they do? BAM! Tickle me. But y'all can't do that so we're good.

Something I should expound on is that I'm extremely Ticklish, infact, I can tickle myself to the ground unable to breathe from laughter. Not sure if my brains busted or if it's some phycological thing, but yah. Luckily, it's only really the armpit area that's like that, but even my knees are quite ticklish. This one time, I was in a car with some friends and in the middle seat. The two friends sitting next to me both stated tickling me for a while until I finally passed out. Yah, kinda embarrassing (btw they felt really bad about that and never did it again, cause tbh it's kinda wierd)

My first set of questions- Is it normal to be this Ticklish? Especially as a man? Is this a turn off for woman? Does this weird you out? Include any other thoughts on this.
The next subject is extremely relevant

Hug/snuggle/cuddle: Now wait! I actually really like hugs, and for some reason they don't tickle all to much at all really. The problem is my lack of experience with hugs cause my family hates hugs, except my mother does tolerate it but that's besides the point. But one of my fears with woman is that imma hug em wrong and they will get mad at me or something, so I've got questions.

When is a good time to hug or snuggle? What's the difference between a hug and a snuggle? Snuggle/cuddle, what's the difference? Which is better? As a guy, can I initiate a snuggle? Who leans on who? How long do you hug/snuggle a woman for? Anwser all of these assuming a romantic relationship is already in place, I already know the hugging etiquette for friends that are girls or family.
Sorry for the silly questions but they are legitimate

Kiss: I have no idea what I'm doing, my lips are dry, cracked and I pick at them a lot cause of my nerves.
I should probably do a forhead kiss first. I don't know.

Thanks for anwers!