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Me and my wife split 2 years ago. The spark was just not there we were bored. Not sexually but on communication level.
She and I both went on a fuck spree. I never did a relationship. She however started short term relationships 3 times and had a baby with the guy she went to right after me.
She went out one week before we split and cheated with him. He talked to her and gave her the attention she needed. But I had to hit him and throw him out of house because he turned very psycho and possessive and intimidating my children. He never sees her or his kid really.
The next 2 boyfriend were heavy drug users and now she is to. I have taken custody of both my son' 6 and 4 and my step son who is 8. She sees them now 2 or 3 days a month.
I have set her up with clean living but she is still dating the herion boyfriend she now does coke an h. I want her back to being the amazing mother she was. And would give up anything to get that.

I feel like women are responsive in relationships. If the guy is too nice and becomes a pushover, then she treats him like shit. If the guy treats her well with a sense of mutual respect while focusing on his life mission and maintaining attraction, then she will always respond positively. If the guy treats her like shit, then she will feel relcutant to open up and carry resentment... thus reciprocating being treated like shit. Men set the pace and lead the relationship. if they do it right, then their girlfriend treats them well, if they do it wrong, then their girlfriend treats them like shit. If i see a girl disrespecting their boyfriend in front of others, i automatically think he's a pushover bitch.