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I need some 3rd party clarity - preferably from people who know about the home buying process. And this may be long, so apologies.

My husband and I just moved across the country back to our hometown because my husband got a job. We're currently staying with his parents.

When she heard we were moving back, my MIL's friend reached out and said she would be moving in October/November and would potentially do a direct sale of her house to us for $340,000.00.

340 is within our price range and we're a little intimidated by the house-buying process as we're first time home buyers.

Only thing is... we toured the house a couple days ago and... we don't love it. We love a lot of the concepts it was going for, but every room in the house feels like 3 square feet too small if that makes sense. Like the proportions are off. Does that make sense? And the backyard leaves much to be desired. The lot is 0.24 acres and we were wanting a little more land.

I understand this would be a first house and not a forever house but... does that mean we should buy it?

Also, as we were touring it, the owner said that she'd actually like 380,000 - 400,000 for it and that she was actually planning to move in January. Now, I love my in-laws and am very grateful for their generosity in letting us stay with them, but January is a long time away.

My in-laws are really pushing us to buy it because "it's a good deal" even at 400K and we could afford 400K but... we don't love the house.

Alternatively... there's 4.25 acres for sale near my parents' house, but that would require building and that's a whole other set of questions.

Or we could find somewhere to rent.

I realize there are other houses, but I'm feeling the pressure to get out of my in-law's house and with the market how it is... also again, we're intimidated by the whole making an offer for 60K more than asking site unseen situation that seems to be happening right now.

Thoughts?

I am in my mid twenties and truly am alone. The only people I talk to are coworkers (not friendly), my dad and I have 3 “online friends”. One I’ve known for a few years, the other two I met while gaming. The one that’s better at games and I get along with more has really been rubbing me the wrong way lately. He’s very conceited, I used to just think he was macho and showed cocky traits here and there but it’s really been irking me. He talks about how women hit on him and seem to throw themselves at him, his successes and he beats his chest when he does something in the game (pretty much implying he does most of the work). And while that’s the case most of the time, I do try to contribute and if he really has an issue he can just say something or stop playing with me.

I enjoy talking with my gamer friends but atm the one that thinks he’s better than everyone else is making me consider unfriending him, the other one is just young and dumb. I’ve had actually in person friends in the past but stopped talking to them, one that also irritated me due to being conceited tried adding me on SC recently but I denied her request.

My mom has always said that I’m not perfect either and I should try to be a bit more understanding and not have such high expectations of people. The way I see it, I’d rather be alone versus be around people that don’t have my best interest. I’m trying to not be as hasty but everyone is just rubbing me the wrong way.