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About 15 months ago i met this girl on instagram named heather

Heather is 45,
she has a daughter who’s like 8 i think?
She’s single
She’s a thicker girl
and she’s a senorita.

So we started talking blah blah
& i ended up wanting to get to know her more...
as in i wanted to date, at the time i was only 17
So she did turn me down, she said i was closer to her daighters age, I've been through this you know how it goes.

I really like heather she doesn't even look like she's in her 30’s yet, she’s so cute.

Anyway my birthday came up recently and i brought the dating thing back up again, since im now 18
She seemed like she wanted to, but her morals wouldn't let her
She did flirt with me, even when i was 17 there was a litte bit of flirting
When i turned 18 though thats when it got good..
really good... & it was only texting so i knew the real thing had to be amazing..

i started wanting to get to know her more
as in i wanted to meet up maybe..
To see what would happen & see where it went...

She didn't seem to have a problem with it but i felt she wanted to get to know how i lived
she started asking if i lived on my own...
all these personal questions, then she asked me if i had a job.

Honestly i dont
i told her
“ my sister is setting something up for me at at&t once she becomes the assistant manager”

Ever since i said that she hasn't been reading any of my messages... or replying

i didn't say anything at first because when it comes to older women (especially older women with children)
you can't expect them to be consistent with you
they may not text back for a couple of days and thats normal i get that, but its been a couple of weeks.. and she sees my texts...
weve been talking for almost 2 years and she ghosts me because i dont have a job?