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My boyfriend has been married once. It ended in a really bad divorce, and his ex got most rights to their children. And now, his kids dislike him a lot. (brainwashed by his ex)
They divorced about 8 years ago, and he hasn't really been in a serious relationship since me, except for like one I think that lasted a year.

He said " As of right now, all I can say is no to marriage. I don't know if my mind will change in the future or not, but I don't see that happening."

I've always dreamed of getting married 🥺

Even if he never changes his mind, I will still continue the relationship. I love him more than a paper certificate of marriage.

Been together for 7years. He has his final med exams and he isn't studying properly.. spending most of the time playing games and being hopeless that he'll fail anyhow and will reappear for exams.
Yesterday i was kinda being BRUTALLY HONEST with him and told him to think about his carrier and goals so that he can Have some motive to study. (He dosen't like thinking about future becz it stresses him). And get a bit more serious and stuff. Bcz i have been motiving him to study since 2-3 months and still he isn't doing well.
Now i feel really guilty for making him feel bad about himself and the fact that he was constantly thinking about what I said.