What to do when my boyfriend is telling me while he is yelling at me on an argument that I need to grow up and it’s all my fault?

[Marilyn20]

He is blaming me that I am trying to make an issue on every conversation and he hang out every time I’m trying to discuss more in depth with him regarding what’s the things that’s making him so mad. Plus he said in the past that I’m crazy and immature. (by the way there’s not specific or serious reasons for these arguments.)

[kyleelyn199723]

Walk away and possible tell him to leave or you should consider leaving. Arguments and disagreements never get settled when your goal is to yell and argue. It’s rather disrespectful that he name calls you. That should drop a little hint to you of how he actually feels about you

[slatyb]

Get the hell away from that man-child. Then he will learn who needs to grow up.

[Marilyn20]

Sometimes I was just thinking if that’s happening because of his constant stress he may have for some life issues (insomnia, not stability at work, growing with a lazy parent etc.)

[slatyb]

Maybe, but you can’t fix them. No one can help until he believes he has a problem.

[Anonymous]

Realise the irony and start seeing him as the projecting little boy that he is.

[Marilyn20]

So how do I have to react with him?

[Opinion Owner]

He sounds like a toxic piece of shit to me, the correct responce would seem to be leaving him.

[Marilyn20]

Gotcha

[Anonymous]

Not enough information. Your story seems incomplete.

[Marilyn20]

What else would you like to know so you get an overall opinion?

[Opinion Owner]

The whole story. What triggered him? If anything at all? Why he go full freak out mode if it's not out of thin air?
What did you do? What did he do? What happened before the triggering?

[jahaims]

Use logic to deconstruct his argument

[Marilyn20]

Can you be more specific please with an example?

[jahaims]

If you can't extrapolate based on what I said you aren't smart enough to do so even with guidance.