He called me trash?

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So this morning, I was supposed to wake my boyfriend up because he wanted to take a shower. So I tried to wake him up at 7:30 like he told me but he didn't want to so I fell back asleep and at 8 I woke us up because I had to work (I work from home). When he was getting ready, he told me,: ''  For waking up people, you really are trash! ''. Like that really hurt my feelings. So then out of hurt and anger, I threw the promise ring he gave me at him. I told him that he had no right to call me like that and he said ' 'I'll call you however I want! '' and then he storme out to go work. Like I love him so much but I can't believe he said that. What should I do? I need serious guidance here.

CrazyGirl2 · Accepted Answer

Huh? Ok, well that relationship is fucking over! I mean you may not want to end it, nor he, but when a guy can speak to the woman he supposedly loves like that…. Yeah, it’s over. Y’all just haven’t realized it yet! If you want an analogy of your love… watch “Weekend At Bernie’s”. Your love, well that’s Bernie. And the two of you are the two guys who are carrying Bernie around everywhere doing crazy stuff to make it not look so dead, but yeah, it’s still dead, and it’s going to start smelling the place up pretty soon. Im so sorry he did that!

boggboss · Accepted Answer

U two clearly have no idea how to discuss disagreements as what he done was toxic but how u responded was equally childish how can u claim to love him whilst throwing the ring which is a symbolic of your love at him I think u two need some type of counselling as if this is how u deal with arguments this is a relationship that ain't going to last

GingerGuy · Accepted Answer

Verbally abusive. I'd question your love for him because what's to love about that? Does he love you? Love doesn't mean you can verbally abuse your partner. It's one thing if he was just really grumpy and tired, but you said to another that he's done this before, so he's just a really ABUSIVE boyfriend. I'm sorry you love him.

Crafteroon · Answer

Verbal abuse is a slippery slope. Do you think this kind of behavior will not escalate during the years and with each stressful situation? Because it will not just end in verbal abuse.

Since you're clearly upset about it, unless he has apologised by now, I feel this relationship has come to an end. How long you plan to torture yourself in it is up to you.

Pyrofox · Answer

Just simply stick to him XD. I won't be your human alarm clock then if you think I'm trash for waking you up when you asked to be. And watch him like go to the nearest wall and like smack his own head against the wall for the malcious compliance XD.

mark000h · Answer

You need to talk to him and tell him he can't talk to you like that ever, and if he thinks he can, then you should break up because he's someone that will never respect you.

noohair · Answer

If this story is accurate, you saw a part of his personality that will not change. If I was your dad I would advise you, is this what you want to marry? if no, don't waste any more time with him.

QuietRunner · Answer

He was angry about something, didn't want to discuss it yet with you He may feel like he is losing control with something or some other stress

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

But you love him though and don't want him talking to you in that way. Make up your mind and stop giving an exception to an abuser.

VikingWarLord · Answer

Monogamy is a SCAM to begin with but... NEVER EVER EVERRRRR move in!  The moving in part ruins EVERYTHING

Anonymous · Answer

Next time do as you're told. If you given him a nice enough BJ when he gets home he might forgive this transgression

Anonymous · Answer

Thats not acceptable at all and he doesn't respect, you need to take a stand on this now coz this the first time otherwise he will get used it and it will go on forever

PrettyPriya · Answer

That is horrible. Has he done this before?

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Is this how he grew up?

Stevefiveo · Answer

Run away!

Hangry06 · Answer

He sounds toxic

driven159 · Answer

can you spell abuser

In_Trance · Answer

block him

lycanthrope3 · Answer

he is the trash

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