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So i'm dating this guy for 5 months, we used to be classmates for over 5 years, when we took our bachelor degree, we agreed on going to the same university, but our choice was far from home, i convinced my mum, while his dad was against it, he even said some hurtful stuff like "you're ruining your future because of her", i was hurt but didn't say anything tbh.

So we're now studying in different colleges, i came back home every vacation, he never came to my place actually, i wanted to show my friends my first boyfriend, so i invited him to this event, he promised me but he didn't keep it actually and my phone was broken at that, so dumbly he sent me a text telling me not coming, then we met at night, i was upset he made me even more by saying "my dad told me that family is important than her".

These stuffs happened two months ago, the real deal now, my birthday was last January and i wanted to be my first happy birthday since my birthdays were worst as hell, well i had to came back to my university, he sent me a really cute text but he didn't give me any present, so i didn't care much but still.

i mean it's not about money, he has enough money to buy even a flower I don't know anything makes me feel special at my day, because in his birthday, i made a surprise for him and he told me that he even cried because i wanted him to feel special on his day, but nevermind.

Valentine's day came, and also he didn't even buy me anything, even it was my first valentine with me being in a relationship, i stayed at home instead of going back to my university and skipped classes for the next day for his sake and to spent it together, but we didn't because he said the weather was bad.

Now he's trying to change from his university, he told me he sent his papers off, but his dad still against it but he let it to send its, and i know his dad wouldn't let him at the end, but after all these efforts, he told

So i'm dating this guy for 5 months, we used to be classmates for over 5 years, when we took our bachelor degree, we agreed on going to the same university, but our choice was far from home, i convinced my mum, while his dad was against it, he even said some hurtful stuff like "you're ruining your future because of her", i was hurt but didn't say anything tbh, so we're now studying in different colleges, i come back home every vacation, he never came to my place actually, i wanted to show my friends my first boyfriend, so i invited him to this event, he promised me but he didn't keep it actually and my phone was broken at that, so dumbly he sent me a text telling me not coming, then we met at night, i was upset he made me even more by saying "my dad told me that family is important than her"..
these stuffs happened two months ago, the real deal now, my birthday was last January and i wanted to be my first happy birthday since my birthdays are the worst days, well i had to came back to the university, he sent me a cute text but he didn't give me any present, i mean it's not about money, he has enough money to buy even a flower I don't know anything makes me feel special at my day, because in his birthday, i made a surprise for him and he told me that he even cried because i wanted him to feel special on his day, Valentine's day came, and also he didn't even buy me anything, even it was my first valentine while i'm in relationship, i stayed there and skipped class the next day for his sake and to spent it together, but we didn't.., now he's trying to change university, he told me he sent his papers off, but his dad still against it but he let it to send its, but after all these efforts, he told me "no depression pls" which means don't keep your hopes up for nothing sure, it depressed me, and im really having hard times with living by my own and sleep disorder, and remembering everything made me more depressed, i didn't even go to study for days.. help me guys.

This guy (27 years old) I have been dating for seven months has suddenly changed towards me and I feel my self-esteem and confidence has degraded over these months mainly because I feel like I'm being played by him or he is playing with my mind. Thank you.

1) He talks about how hot other women are in front of me. When we are out on a date, he talks and complains about other people in the same setting and these are people he doesn't know-basically being critical of them. I don't really like it because I just think he should mind his own business.

2) Instead of talking and resolving little issues, he gives the silent treatment for 2-3days. I feel it's becoming emotionally abusive as It's torture and no matter how much I try to talk to him and get him to tell me what is wrong, he won't do it. Thus, I constantly have to apologise for whatever it is that makes him give me the cold shoulder all the time.

3) The day before I left for America to see my family, he was distant. I rang him up and he said "F*** this, I don't want to have this conversation with you now when you can just fly off tomorrow!!! I don't wanna talk now in this heat. Far out." (He didn't apologise for swearing at me)

4) He found out my dad didn't like him because my dad thinks he is a player. My boyfriend then told me a story about how his grandfather went against family to marry his grandma. I thought maybe I should do that and try harder cos that is probably what he wants me to do. TURNS OUT: I talked to dad. Dad warned me but said he just wanted me to be happy. I told my boyfriend, but now he says "What if the interest isn't there any more?" "i lost interest cos of your dad"

5) I have a gut feeling he is cheating emotionally and wants someone else. He told me "it's all in your head. You are speaking nonsense. Enough of these allegations. Where do you get your information? Where is the proof?" BUT, my best friend told me