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When I was a young man, I thought that I knew what women wanted in a partner and I was convinced that everything they wanted was something I did not have. As I got older and had some dating experiences, I developed a better understanding because I talked to my partners and tried to learn about their perspective. As I developed some real knowledge about what girls want - and had confidence in those beliefs - I also developed self-confidence. I came to understand that not all women want the same thing in a partner, that some women would reject me while others would be attracted to me, and I accepted that as one of the facts of life. Dating in my 40's and 50's was MUCH easier than dating when I was 21 years old.

Do YOU know what the opposite sex wants in a partner? Girls, if you think every guy wants a girl with big boobs, you are wrong! Guys, if you think girls are all looking for a guy with an 8" probe, you are wrong! Do you know what they REALLY want?

In my life, I have seen a lot of single moms. My mom was also a single mom. She had her first kid when she was 18 with a guy she new for less than 5 months. She then had another kid at age 21 with another guy she knew less than a year. She eventually met my dad 5 years down the road, they dated for 5 years, had me, and they are still together.

My mom told me about her struggles as a single, young mom and even though she loves all her children, she regrets having kids so young. She didn't get to go to college, she didn't get to travel, she didn't get really experience life because she had kids so young.

My older sister did the same thing as my mom. So did my female cousins. They all had kids with men they weren't dating very long and ended up being single mom at a young age.

I am currently 27. I finished college. I have a great job. I'm financially secure... and I have my own home. Getting into the dating world, I keep meeting a lot of single moms who are in my age range with 5-6 year old kids.

I guess I am throwing all this out there, because I don't get the rush to have kids. I understand women have to race against the clock as they age... but it seems people have no chill. What ever happened to finding the right partner, dating for years, enjoying your partner, travelling with your partner, really getting to know your partner and making sure both of you are financially stable to provide for a child?

It seems like people date for a few months before having a kid and they don't get to experience having a fun time with their partner or focus on providing a stable atmosphere for their kid...