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You are being saved from further harm, and something better is waiting.

Example: You like someone who happened to be a player/whore, they get into a relationship with someone else and you can't help but feel hurt even though you know they aren't good anyway. You also end up hearing how they are cheating or disrespecting their partner.

Referring back to my question, would you feel you have been protected from dating this person?

This is a long, complex story so bear with me! I need some help!
So last year this guy really was showing some interest in me. He was overly gentlemanly and flirty, would get jealous and tried to make me jealous. He'd lock eyes with me from across the room. One time when our eyes met he walked into a glass door. 😂I'm extremely shy so he'd speak for me in class. He'd be all confident until he'd get near me he'd stammer. We never talked but there was some serious chemistry. He'd ignore hot girls that were checking him out around me. (His friends would laugh about how he would approach girls when I wasn't there.)
This went on for a while. He wasn't dating anyone else, girls tried to hook him up with their friends but he wasn't interested. We finally talked and he complimented my personality a lot and kept staring and smiling at me. He was very sweet but wouldn't let any guys near me. His hands were sweating and he listened to every word I said. He was overly nice to my parents and wouldn't leave the room if I wasn't there.
I thought everything was perfect until my friend told me he had a lot of exes and he was an abdnormally good kisser (he kissed a girl for a dare 2 years ago). Is he a player? Or does he geniunely like me?

This guy (27 years old) I have been dating for seven months has suddenly changed towards me and I feel my self-esteem and confidence has degraded over these months mainly because I feel like I'm being played by him or he is playing with my mind. Thank you.

1) He talks about how hot other women are in front of me. When we are out on a date, he talks and complains about other people in the same setting and these are people he doesn't know-basically being critical of them. I don't really like it because I just think he should mind his own business.

2) Instead of talking and resolving little issues, he gives the silent treatment for 2-3days. I feel it's becoming emotionally abusive as It's torture and no matter how much I try to talk to him and get him to tell me what is wrong, he won't do it. Thus, I constantly have to apologise for whatever it is that makes him give me the cold shoulder all the time.

3) The day before I left for America to see my family, he was distant. I rang him up and he said "F*** this, I don't want to have this conversation with you now when you can just fly off tomorrow!!! I don't wanna talk now in this heat. Far out." (He didn't apologise for swearing at me)

4) He found out my dad didn't like him because my dad thinks he is a player. My boyfriend then told me a story about how his grandfather went against family to marry his grandma. I thought maybe I should do that and try harder cos that is probably what he wants me to do. TURNS OUT: I talked to dad. Dad warned me but said he just wanted me to be happy. I told my boyfriend, but now he says "What if the interest isn't there any more?" "i lost interest cos of your dad"

5) I have a gut feeling he is cheating emotionally and wants someone else. He told me "it's all in your head. You are speaking nonsense. Enough of these allegations. Where do you get your information? Where is the proof?" BUT, my best friend told me