Search Results: emotional abuse

Depends on the definition of either one.

Positive attitude: this is usually a happy person. a person who sees that they are not the problem, everyone else is. So they are happy with themselves. As a single person, they don't take any initiative. They think they will just be asked out. It usually happens. When married they don't have any problems with spending as much Money on whatever they want so they do it. They don't care about the house being a mess, or the finances are in shambles. They work for themselves, and you have to pay all their bills. If you say anything, you are the horrible, complaining, ungrateful, evil, problem and they are perfect and happy all the time! The baby has no babysitter? Your problem, you don't have enough money for the bills? Even though they make 60k a year, it's your problem. You're married but everything is your problem. They are in a happy, positive, there are no problems for me, I am more awesome than you bubble. My money is mine and none of your business! You're mad? Not my problem!!!

Negative attitude: this is the person who is usually angry. They are usually the ones who do most of the asking out, and first initiating frienship. They put in the most effort. The house is messy? Their fault! The kids are crying, their fault. Money needs managing? Their fault. Usually, this person doesn't talk to anyone very much and always seems stressed. These people are doing all they can while others are taking it easy, yet they are blamed for everything. These are the most negative people ever because nothing they do is right. If someone steals from them and they complain, they are an evil, unloving, unkind and not forgiving person. If they say otherwise, heap upon heap of psychological, emotional, verbal and physical abuse will be thrown at them. They see themselves as worthless, unloved, pathetic piece of wasted air.