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I'm confused by guy's behaviour between dates. He takes forever to respond to messages and doesn't always initiate plans. Why is that?

I've been talking and going on dates with this guy for a few months. In person he is great and we are definitely all over each other. But between dates (and sometimes there are weeks between dates) we text but I find he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Was he trying to test my reaction?

I’d been exchanging glances with this guy all semester. While he was talking in class ( which is a lot ) he would always glance at me while he was talking. Him and I have spoken out in class a lot and some of our...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Am I really just a magnet for bad girls or is this common behavior in the west today?

It doesn’t matter who I meet wether it be my girlfriend or a girl I want to date or just a friend. I will explain the three cases. 1. A girl that wants to be my girlfriend. The last girl that approached me for a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

It doesn’t matter who I meet wether it be my girlfriend or a girl I want to date or just a friend. I will explain the three cases. 1. A girl that wants to be my girlfriend. The

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Guy dates many girls?

I ve seen pictures of him lying in the same couch with girls, legs entwined or in hot tubs with girls. He routinely goes out to drink and meet women. He has several female friends and I wouldn't be surprised if he has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Guys, what can a girlfriend do to make you feel better after she hurts you?

Right now I hurt my previous boyfriend because of my own insecurities and past abandonment issues. All because I caught him on WhatsApp. After he told me that he hardly uses that app. Yes, in the past we have gotten into...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

How do I keep things going between him and I?

There’s a guy I met last semester. We met in a smaller class and he would always make eye contact with me while talking. Sometimes it got kinda awkward. He’d tell a story before class and we would laugh together from...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Why would she think this wouldn’t be offensive?

Ok so my girlfriend says she feels like she’s settling with me. She feels people should match in terms of looks and she feels I don’t match her. She likes me because of my personality and doesn’t want to break up because...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was he using her to make me jealous?

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Men who are late 30s help-37 year old men can be shy too or is he simply heartbroken?

I’m 30 and I met this men (37 years old) online back in October we chatted for a while since he was in a business trip. So I waited til he came back home I live close to where he lives too. Even though we chatted not met...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did he mention her just to make me jealous?

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

What do you prefer?

I’m struggling here. All of my male friends always complain about their girlfriends. Men always state they would love for their girls to just be laid back and let them have more freedom. I’m the kind of girl...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do girls complain about relationships where pretty girls are with average-looking guys?

I have seen this as a very common complaint with many girlfriends that I know. Apparently most of the time it's out of jealousy. But to be fair it's out of societal expectations, guys are nurtured from childhood to work...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did he follow me if he said he doesn’t feel anything for me?

I worked with this guy and we were friends, I admitted to him I liked him but he denied anything there even though he would comment and say I look amazing. Previously he acted jealous a couple of times, he said to his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he just too shy to do anything?

There’s a guy I met last semester who sparked my curiosity. We met in a smaller class and he would always make eye contact with me while talking. Sometimes it got kinda awkward. He’d tell a story before class and we would...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

He seemed a bit jealous when another guy chatted with me even though he has a GIRLFRIEND?

He just gave him a stern look from across the room… but also we don’t talk or anything..

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is there a chance he’s not asking me out because he’s shy?

There’s a guy who I met last semester who sparked my curiosity. We met in a smaller class and he would always make eye contact with me while talking. Sometimes it got kinda awkward. we’d even have funny discussions before...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Guys - why do my friends boyfriends/husbands say these things to me?

Do they feel sorry for me? It’s so weird and creeps me out. At Christmas we had a night out at work. I have a friend at work who’s boyfriend also works with us. I bumped into him at the bar and he told me he thought I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is he not asking me out?

There was a guy who I met last semester who sparked my curiosity. We met in a smaller class and he would always make eye contact with me while talking. Sometimes it got kinda awkward. we’d even have funny discussions...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25