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Pretty simply question, to which I sort of already sort of know the answer, but I'm more or less curious for people to elaborate in terms of the specifics as it relates to how they deal with height when in comes to online dating.

I'm a short guy, about 5'5 with shoes on. I'm a decent looking dude, and I've had a handful of girlfriends in my 30 or so years of life, but when it comes to online dating, I feel like my success is not at all in line with with the success I should be having in terms of my overall looks, career, profile quality, etc. It's especially interesting to use and pay for the apps like bumble and tinder that then allow you to directly see who finds you attractive. In my case, the only people liking my profile are people who I would consider to be 3/10 at best. when I know I'm at least a 7 and most of the girls I've dated have been around there as well. This has made me wonder if the reason for this is that in an online setting, people are simply filtering me out by height and the only people who are even seeing my profile are really unattractive people who are too desperate to even care who they are dating. They're just happy to get a date.

So if you're given the ability on the site, do you filter out height and where is your cut off if you do.

Kind of a part two to a previous question, as well as a continuation of this, where so many women failed the Quality Partner test. (I mean, I'm far from perfect, but is asking someone to not be a drug-abusing loser or a single mother THAT picky, nowadays?)

So which one of these choices are the worst? You don't have to worry about feminists, "chicks with dicks," plus-sized women, or abusers in this one.

Also, what's your approach to shy guys you fancy?

So I'm on the dating apps, looking for a long term relationship, mother of my children, wife material etc. I've found most women list confidence as a quality they desire. When I was younger, I used to be quite shy around girls, but some of them found this adorable, and I started to attract girls who are more assertive. But when looking for a partner, could this be an attractive quality?