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I felt that it’s nobody business to tell me how I should dress or groom myself to look a certain way. If they don’t like or hate it that’s fine I’m not someone who gets offended when people don’t like it. But it’s none of their business to judge or tell me what I should do with my body. Don’t like it? Cool. Judging and telling ME what I should DO to my BODY? That’s crossing the line. Think about it, how would you feel if someone judges you for your fashion sense and other things? Have you ever put yourselves in someone else’s shoes? If you do, good. If you don’t that’s not their problem it’s YOUR PROBLEM! The reason why I’m more open to talking about this and saying that judging was wrong was because my favourite influencer is not afraid to express herself when she gets judged. She was slut shamed by many haters and she inspired me to not live to please people but myself even though I didn’t wear skimpy clothing like she does but I had respect for her.

When I saw some men who had very long beards, I admitted I didn’t like it. But I didn’t judge and I had this thinking that they deserved to have a choice we had no rights to change their mindsets. And my favourite influencer said not judging makes you a better person which is true. Stop wasting your time on others whom you don’t know that well but focus on making yourselves a better person. If you chose to leave hate comments here or start an argument you are considered a hater and as she said ‘haters don’t really matter and they deserved to fuck off’. I will not start an argument because it’s worthless to change people’s minds I can just simply delete them as that’s the easiest way out. She has changed me in a good way and I’m proud of myself. I demanded a judgmental free society for both men and women but it’s not happening! I’m not blind I know what I’m doing don’t assume I’m just a stupid fan.

I find that shaming people for their bodies can affect their mindsets and might cause eating disorders. They’re their own person we have no right to tell them what to do with their bodies. When I was a child I was shamed for being too skinny, that caused me to overeat and not in a good way. Now I don’t give a f what others think of my body. Those people were haters! Shaming men and women for their bodies shouldn’t exist! Slut shaming is wrong too. Just because someone wears skimpy clothes doesn’t make her a slut. The world will be a much better place if we simply stop judging.

My best friend and I got into a fight recently. About a boy, I'm now dating and I really really like. To start off, I broke up with my ex boyfriend about three months ago and met my boyfriend when I went to my grandma's house for a two weeks and a half. Turns out he goes to my uni but is just in a different department. When we both returned from our vacation, we constantly met up after school, and I din't tell my friends because I was afraid they'd judge me for seeing someone right after my break up so I was waiting for the right moment.

Two weeks ago, my friend tells me she likes someone from her part-time job and everything. I ended up finding out it was my boyfriend. During that time, I stopped talking to my boyfriend and basically broke up with him but staying away from him hurt too much and we ended up getting back together.

Because of this, I decided to tell my friend I was dating him and she didn't react well. She got mad and called me a slut and that I was stealing every man from her because, she used to like my ex boyfriend too but he liked me. Before him, there was another guy in our high school who we both liked but he liked me instead and I decided not to pursue anything with him at that time.

I feel terrible towards her and now she says she doesn't want anything to do with me. Our friends found out and now, half of them are saying I'm at fault but I honestly don't think and I can't break up with my boyfriend because I seriously love him way too much to give him up. Yet I do want to make it up to her.

How can I fix things with her and keep the person I love? Is it really my fault her crushes liked me back? This isn't even a boasting post where I'm trying to look desirable. I never did anything to make them like me.