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We broke up several years ago and did our own thing for college and 2 years later we were friends on Social Media again. Then he started dating someone and unadded me once they were together for 6 months. haven't heard from him since. The other night my friends and I were stalking our exes online and I found his Youtube Playlist he started in 2019 and has been adding to it and new songs listed today, a lot of the songs are about past love and missing an ex. Part of me is like is this about me? I mean if he's still with his girlfriend and sees her everyday or even lives with her, is he going to have a 17 hour playlist called You dedicated to her especially if theyve been together for over 2 years? What's your thought?

I saw a guy for a few months back in my early twenties. I settled with him because no one better came around, bad decision hence I should have waited for someone that really met what I was looking for. I was a virgin at the time, he was not. I really tested him with my virginity. I didn’t want to have sex right away, I wanted him to get tested for STDs which he did. After a month in, we finally did have sex but he did say that he wouldn’t have waited if I decided to hold off until marriage. When he visited, he bought almost everything he covered the bill 80+% of the time. But he wasn’t romantic, he made it clear there were times when he was romantic with his exes and he knew I wanted the same type of chivalry. All he did was take me out to dinner for Valentine’s Day. He bought us a cruise package for his birthday but again no romantic gestures, more just taking out his wallet to cover the bare minimum. The other red flag id say is he talked about his exes more than I would have liked, even though he knew I was suspicious of that. He kept on saying that he was over them, he brought them up because he happened to have a lot of his social experiences with them

I saw a guy for a few months back in my early twenties. I settled with him because no one better came around, bad decision hence I should have waited for someone that really met what I was looking for. I was a virgin at the time, he was not. I really tested him with my virginity. I didn’t want to have sex right away, I wanted him to get tested for STDs which he did. After a month in, we finally did have sex but he did say that he wouldn’t have waited if I decided to hold off until marriage. When he visited, he bought almost everything he covered the bill 80+% of the time. But he wasn’t romantic, he made it clear there were times when he was romantic with his exes and he knew I wanted the same type of chivalry. All he did was take me out to dinner for Valentine’s Day. He bought us a cruise package for his birthday but again no romantic gestures, more just taking out his wallet to cover the bare minimum. The other red flag id say is he talked about his exes more than I would have liked, even though he knew I was suspicious of that. He kept on saying that he was over them, he brought them up because he happened to have a lot of his social experiences with them

For example, you’re talking about traveling experiences or funny stories, where the ex happens to be involved. He clearly knows that you’re a little suspicious considering he’s bringing them up a lot. And he justifies it by saying that they happened to be around during a lot of those life experiences. Once I stopped seeing him, he wanted to continue following me on IG and like my posts/view my stories but I blocked him.