He was out of a 12 years relationship. We started dating 4 months after his break up. He assured me he was ready. We clicked on so many level so fast. We were madly in love, making plans for the future, we want the same things long term, we were supposed to meet each other family.
Then I went back to France for a week. He told me not to worry, that he wasn't going anywhere. That week he saw her again as part of a group of friends. (He already had but nothing happened). I then came back, he told me he loved me and wanted to spend his life with me.
3 days later he broke up. Telling me that he saw her at the gig the week before and realised he was not over her. That he didn't process the breakup properly and shouldn't have gotten in a relationship or dating that soon. That he needs time to be on his own, single and learn to love himself.
2 days later he sent me a text telling me that he loves me but that, for now, it's not good for either of us and that maybe our paths will cross again in the future.
I don't know what to do. I'm completely lost. I love him so deeply and I know he loves me too. I've never felt that kind of connection with anyone. The thing that hurts is that he's not even sure he'll come back when I know we can have a beautiful future together. He even told me the same before everything happened. I know he's my person.
I'm 32. He's almost 35. I had my fair share of failed relationship and toxic exes. I now know when I've met a good person.
Then I went back to France for a week. He told me not to worry, that he wasn't going anywhere. That week he saw her again as part of a group of friends. (He already had but nothing happened). I then came back, he told me he loved me and wanted to spend his life with me.
3 days later he broke up. Telling me that he saw her at the gig the week before and realised he was not over her. That he didn't process the breakup properly and shouldn't have gotten in a relationship or dating that soon. That he needs time to be on his own, single and learn to love himself.
2 days later he sent me a text telling me that he loves me but that, for now, it's not good for either of us and that maybe our paths will cross again in the future.
I don't know what to do. I'm completely lost. I love him so deeply and I know he loves me too. I've never felt that kind of connection with anyone. The thing that hurts is that he's not even sure he'll come back when I know we can have a beautiful future together. He even told me the same before everything happened. I know he's my person.
I'm 32. He's almost 35. I had my fair share of failed relationship and toxic exes. I now know when I've met a good person.
