He says he was scared of being with me forever, since this is only his first relationship. He doesn't want his first relationship to be his last one. I honestly didn't want to break up... I really had no problem with our relationship, and I realize that each day with him only made me love him stronger. I begged and begged him, and tried to convince him to get back with me, he says he really wants to be with me too but he says we just met at the wrong moment. If he had met me after having several girlfriends, it would've worked
yesterday I tried not contacting him, at 1am I noticed he had logged onto my Facebook (because he knows my password) and read some notifications that I was posting to a group about our relationship.
Then around 6am, he called me and woke me up. At first I tried to decline his calls, but then he started texting me because he thought I went on a date last night with somebody on tinder. He then said "you know it's really hard for me to forget about you but the only way for me to move on is to delete all our pictures, and block you on all forms of social media".
So he did it. I can no longer contact him. Even though my heart really felt like I lost the soulmate of my life, even though he still loved me, I let him chased his dreams of wanting just more than one relationship in his life.
i want to make it work. But the only thing I can do is hope that he realizes that the grass is greener on the other side. Our relationship just ended all of a sudden and it didn't feel right at all.
do you think there is a chance that he will come back to me?
Most Helpful Guy
His heart might not be ready for the forever thing as of now. I think he needs time to introspect himself and ask himself that does he really want you forever or not?
He might be scared of forever kind of commitment already thinking that if he commits now and for some reason ends up changing his opinions down the lane then things would be terrible. He might not be mentally ready. All you can now do is hope that he asks himself what does he really want and comes up with a definite answer. All the best to you.
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, i think he just wants you to beg for him and that stuff but if he cares if you're dating then maybe he's jealous? I don't know.