see me and my ex boyfriend broke up a month ago I still really love him but I don't know how he feels for me he says he doesn't love me like he used to that it is more friend or sisterly like but he still really cares for me and hopes I do good in life. I couldn't accept the breakup he was my first love and my first real breakup so I didn't know how to handle it so I kept calling and texting him and I think I pushed him away. if he cares like he said he does will he still come back after some time? is there anyway his love for me can come back?he lost it because I broke his trust almost 9 months ago and tried forgiving me but never did while we were together for 9 months he said he has tried but idk. will time help him forgive me? time heals everything right? how I lost his trust was that I was texting my ex boyfriend because he texted me and he asked for a dirty picture and I sent it to him not thinking I guess I didn't know what I had then but I do knoow I really love him so much. I know I have been acting crazy blowing up his phone and sending him a lot of messages in a short amount of time but I still love him and want him to come back. I think space is the way to go right now but I don't want him to forget about me or never contact me again I would hate that although I know I deserve it for treating him like s***. the main thing that I want is for him to forgive me it would make me feel better and him to but I don't know if he can do that since he is already in a rebound relationship within a month after we broke up but he tells me he will probably be with her for a month or so, so maybe its not a rebound. do you think its a rebound?
he has moved on so I know I should to even tho I love him so much I want him to be happy so I know I have to let him go I just want to know if he will ever want to talk to me or see me again even though I acted crazy and basically backed him into a corner? and if you think he will ever be able to forgive me for what I did?
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It seems like the more you pursue him, the more likely he is to think of you as crazy and not respond. You should definately BACK OFF, for your own sanity as much as your love for him.
It also sounds like you do not love yourself very much and are having a hard time forgiving yourself for your actions. If you cannot accept why you made the decisions you did and accept the consequences, you will never be able to love yourself in the way you need to. If you cheated on him or did something else to betray him, there probably was a reason you did it, even if, in the end, you realized it was not the right action to take.
Please, just back away. You don't want him telling people you are crazy and you should definately value yourself more than to send dirty photos to someone you aren't even with anymore. It will come off as desperate, and desperation is never attractive. PLAY IT COOL GIRL, and it will be. If if he loves you, then when you back off, he will pursue, and if not, then MOVE ON!0