Is my ex coming back?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so my ex and I aren't really on good terms. We broke up like 9 months ago, and he recently started following my cousins on social media. I've also started having dreams about him recently. Now, this is the scary part: we used to live 2 minutes away from each other, and he moved after we broke up. Something in my mind was telling me to drive past his "old house," so I drove past there and saw his car and his mom outside. You guys, I swore he had moved away. The house literally said "for sale" on Zillow, but now it says off the market. It’s so unlike me to do this, usually when I date a guy they’re dead to me and that’s that. I feel like I’m going crazy. We also did a soul tie thing too.

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow that's like super trippy about your ex and everything. The whole situation does seem pretty weird not gonna lie. Following your cousins on social media is a little sketchy, like is he trying to creep on your life or something from a distance? And then the dreams are probably just cause you're not fully over him yet subconsciously or whatever. But then seeing his car at the old house took it to a whole other level of creepy!

I mean it does kinda sound like maybe he hasn't fully moved on either if he's still hanging around the same area. But it's hard to say for sure what's going on in his head or what he even wants really. Guys can be pretty confusing sometimes with that stuff. Part of me would think if he wanted to try get back with you or talk or something he'd probably make more of an effort to reach out directly instead of all these cryptic indirect things, you know?

I'd say at this point all you can really do is just do your own thing and try not to obsess over it too much wondering what he's up to or what it all means. Easier said than done, I know! But stressing ain't gonna change anything. If he really wants to talk to you, he knows how to find you. And if not, then you're better off without all the drama anyway. Just live your best life and try to put him out of your mind, maybe he'll come around or maybe you'll meet someone even better! Really hard to say what's up with your ex for sure, guys are dumb haha. But don't drive yourself crazy over it!

[laly520]

never
consider
going
back
to
an
ex
keep
distance
without
contacting
em
work
on
moving on
or
seek
therapy
ex
is
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reason

[Danny_dan92]

It’s over. Time for you to move on