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So I live in a bad area and there's been a lot of break ins happening lately. I already have a home security system and have a home defense shotgun including a couple handguns and I carry on everywhere I go (I have a CCL). But last week a woman in my town was gang r@aped while her husband was at work by a group of men who broke into her home. Now that about game me an anxiety attack and became worried by the thought of something like this happening to me or someone I loved. So if I get a girlfriend and she moved in with me I want to teach her that if I'm not home and you hear the alarm go off or hear someone breaking in, I want her to run to the bedroom bath and lock herself in and take the shotgun off the door mount and call 911 (I'm looking into getting a telephone installed in my bathroom), I'd also like to take her to the range to teach her how to properly use the shotgun too. If your guy did this would you at least take it seriously?

I just had a friends with benefits type of fling with a long time friend. None of us want a relationship but we have a strong connection. She invited me to her place to show me "yoga" for the first time. So we talk while she is in... sweat pants.. that leads to us making out for the second time. then the bedroom.

She then called me asking me to hang out with her at 10pm. A week before, she broke off the "kissing etc." part of our friendship, and said she was going to go on a date with a guy. In other words, we still hung out intimately at her place sharing deep conversation while it was late at night... just no making out or dry humping etc etc. Just deep conversation talking.

I acted like it was no big deal. We had a deep conversation and she seemed pretty tense. She then thanked me for not making a move on her.

I just kept going on about my life. No big deal. But after the date this weekend she messaged me after I didn't talk a few days. She did well on a work project. We had a "catch up" phone conversation.

I did not even bring up her date. She alluded to it saying "I went on a date..." but I just ignored it and kept talking about other stuff without responding.

Then she started getting frustrated and said, "Grrr! I wish you were here right now with you tea! Then you could take care of me right now." She was pissed about stuff at work.

Then by the end of the phone call she started saying, "Hey, you should check up on me... I probably will feel shitty by the end of the week... Its my time of the month." Then she started complaining and saying that she wishes I could hang out with her more.

I sense that this "checking up on me" is a shit test. Is she testing if I am a real man who has a life or whether I am some poodle who rushes to her side on command? Or maybe its something else?

So my girlfriend went to a party where there was a lot of drink and she got pretty drunk. There was a lot of people at the party that I knew, both male and female so several of them have told me exactly what happened.

Apparently, towards the end of the night she sat on another girl's lap and they started kissing. It soon turned into them making out, as a bunch of people started cheering them on. They also had their hands all over each other and the other girl took my girlfriend off to a bedroom.

After confronting my girlfriend about it, she has admitted it but claims they were too drunk to do anything and that they only heavy petted each other through clothing, although I kept going on at her about it and she also admitted to giving the girl oral and the girl touching her down below, under her panties. But she then took that back and said nothing happened at all besides kissing and touching through clothes. And she keeps insisting that they were too drunk to do much and ended up passing out. She says she doesn't remember most of it.

She is upset and has been crying and insists that she didn't know what she was properly doing, because of the alcohol, and that she regrets it. She has apologised multiple times and tells me that she loves me and isn't interested in women, but I don't know what to believe now. I'm not sure what to do?