Search Results: testing if a girl likes me

Just started talking to this girl at my job. Been like 2 weeks roughy. So, It all started with her calling my phone at work to let me know my customer was here (I work in sales). The next day I text her to let her know I sold 5 cars she set an appt on. She texted back I texted back and she didn't say anything. The next day on Saturday, I was sitting by her and she said she didn't feel like texting me back because I have an android and she's gotta an iPhone blah blah. So, I said, "wow you're just not gonna say anything because of that". She's like, " Buy an iPhone". I told her to buy me one etc. Then asked her if she's got Snapchat? She's like yeah. So, I unlock my phone, open the app and she puts her username in and adds me. We talked a little on Snapchat. Now Thursday of this week, I find out she's gotta boyfriend she's been with for 3~ years. And HE LIVES WITH HER AND HER MOM. I'm like wtf? I heard from some employees they broke up. But, her dad works at the same place we do and he walked up to her and said her bfs cars leaking oil, etc. Now today, I asked her what she was doing over the weekend. She said she was going to hang out with her friends. I asked her if she's ever been to Chicago (the city). She said no. I then asked if she's ever been to any of the museums there. She said no but she wants to go to Shedd aquarium. I then said, "your boyfriend doesn't take you places"? She said no he works Monday-Saturday 8-6. I was testing her so I said, bet let's go. She said okay but not in my car. I was shook. So, I asked her again if she's being forreal? She like shyly said "yeah"... I'm lost.. Is she into me? Just being nice or tired of her boyfriend? Wtf I'm lost

That's an astounding one third of fathers named as the father on the birth certificate are not the biological father.

Did you know in a lot of states, the state will extort you to pay for a child that’s not yours anyway? Paternity fraud is a huge issue.

This happened to a friend of mine. He had a one night stand with a girl. They used protection but the condom broke. She got pregnant. They had a DNA test done, which proved that he was definitely not the father, but When they went to court over the child support, he presented the DNA evidence. The magistrate basically banged the gavel down and said ‘Somebody’s gotta feed him and it’s gonna be you until he ages out of child support’

Who out there think this is the right choice? Forcing a man to pay child support to a child that is not his? Its easy with women, They gave birth to the child, so the child is obviously theirs.. This is why i advocate for mandatory DNA testing to be done for all unmarried men BEFORE he puts his name on the birth certificate, and if he is not the father, that mother gets NO support until she figures out who the father is.

Those women out there who thinks its ok to trap a man in this way simply for financial gain are simply monstrous.

Thank goodness Tennessee is trying to pass legislation to make it impossible for a woman to collect child support from a man whom the child is not genetically related to.

https://www.fox13memphis.com/news/local/bill-could-make-it-mandatory-unmarried-fathers-take-dna-test-sign-birth-certificate/ZK5SDEXVC5CZVD3OFCSFU4555E/?utm_campaign=trueAnthem_manual&utm_medium=trueAnthem&utm_source=facebook&fbclid=IwAR1CjhjPOfMS2F9p5ffzB7JLa6BnqIUm6juXgu0nzyMZG9mWg6XPf_9wP1Q#l0v2q0x3cezbnxtg2j

I ask this girl out on a date. She tells me she can’t because of work. I ask her again a few weeks later to something else. She tells me she has a vacation planned that weekend. I ask her if she’s not interested in going out it’s ok to say so. Won’t hurt my feelings. She tells me that her schedule is busy for the next few months. I recently ask her again but to go to a concert months down the road. She tells me she isn’t sure about that month. I’m wondering is she just messing with me and really has no interest in dating or is she testing me to see how I react to this?

"Testing" your partner means that you aren't confident about their intentions and you deliberately stage a situation where they have the opportunity to reveal their true character. For instance, a girl is engaged but wants to know that her fiance won't cheat. So she gets the help of her younger sister. Future sister-in-law calls the guy and asks if he can come over to fix a leaky faucet. When he arrives, she is home alone, and wearing seductive lingerie. She tries to seduce him but he walks out of her house without touching her. When he exits the house, his fiance is waiting outside to congratulate him on passing the test.

If someone tests you even once, it strongly suggests that they don't trust you. And you might get tested again. Who wants to live knowing that everything that happens to you just might be a deliberately staged test? I think testing a partner - if they learn about the test - raises the possibility of a break up to a near certainty.

Have you ever tested a partner? How did that work? Have you ever been tested? How did you feel when yo learned that you had been tested?