Girls, Do ever regret shit testing guys?

[Anonymous]

I think most women don’t even realize they are do this. From an evolutionary perspective i get it that women need to make sure they can trust their mate. But hasn’t society advanced to the point that these bs mental quirks are no longer necessary?

I’ll admit to a very limited extent men can shit test too. But most of us don’t naturally test women unless she does something that sets off alarm bells (we suspect cheating, she doesn’t respect us, etc.). When we do test it’s consciously planned out in our minds.

I can admit a TINY and i do mean tiny bit of drama can help you understand the other person. But looking for drama just for the hell of it ruins everything for everyone.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Those are games noone should play... Female or male

[Asker]

I agree but let’s be honest. Women generally do this much more then men do.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Not all women are game players, not all women do this, and I've seen guys do it too, when they purposefully use one female to try to make another female jealous 🤷🏼‍♀️ I'm not going to say who does it more because I can't really know that but neither can you, that would be assumption not fact

[Asker]

Yeah I hate to generalize. But as a man I’ve learned too many painful lessons in my life to NOT expect to be tested. All women do it to a certain extent. The more they like and are attracted to the less they do it (and the tests will be easy to pass).

Yes men do this too but it’s less common. We don’t like drama for the sake of drama.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Neither do I and hello, I'm a woman... People create drama, and despite what you think, it's both genders that can do it, not just females

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

And life brings enough drama to want to deal with people that create unnecessary drama.. Old lady ain't got time for that