Do women ever make the first move?

[Willoughby23]

Yes

No

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[Finchie40]

Yes they do , and if you are attracted to her? you are best to keep her because most girls’ that make the first move , are already head over heels for you , she knows you are what she wants and she will have no problem being submissive to you. So you are best to take your chances with her. Every girl that made the first move on me , that I was attracted to , treated me like Gold. I ended up marrying a girl that was head over heels for me , because I made her feel weak in her knees , every time she saw me or was near me. She treated me like a King and stood by my side for a long time , sadly after a long time together and after having kids , her and I started butting heads and than she decided to be selfish and pretty much betrayed me She became my ex once she betrayed me , but the crazy thing is , she still wants me and has been trying to get me back ever since that happened. I parted ways with her and ended up dating other girls , the girls’ I asked out , sadly didn’t last that long , but the ones that did ask me out, we had amazing sex together, they would of lasted, if they weren’t lying to me about being single when really they weren’t , they chose to lie to me when I didn’t lie to them , so eventually I gave my ex another chance because I was having no luck with finding a girl that was in it for the long haul , Most girls’ today are sadly selfish people. So until I find the right one my ass is staying single , My ex and I are still friends and I tried giving her another chance. but we are taking things slow because sadly I can not love her like I use to , her and I are just FWB’s now , but both open to date other people , we promised each other if we end up having sex with anyone else , her and I will just remain friends. Her and I haven’t really dated anyone else as of yet , We are dealing with a ton of other shit to even have time to date anyone else FWB’s has been a great thing so far between us , but sadly I would like to eventually fall in love again one of these days with whoever that may be. It’s definitely going to be with a girl that makes the first move lol My wife and are still legally married , we never followed through with the divorce , she is sadly now dealing with health issues and it isn’t looking good , I am standing by her side thinking it’s the right thing for me to do, She keeps telling me she doesn’t want anyone else but me. But she has a weird way of showing it and I can no longer really trust her anymore , why FWB’s has been working for me with her. So who knows what’s going to happen

[hahahmm]

Yeah but it's rare and 99% of the time she's not the one you would pick so if you're a guy who values having a backbone and being a leader type you really aren't waiting around for women to ask you out. The one time in my life that a woman who was fine as hell (10 out of 10) came to me begging for my attention, I had a girlfriend so I turned the 10 down. Later on when I hit problems in my relationship I said to myself, you know it's not really cheating for an unmarried guy to get a phone number for future reference. I can't be accused of ever being a cheater tho, that's for sure.

[Justneedtokno]

Women make the first move, but it’s just not in the way men think you just have to also watch and see what she’s doing. We smile we hint we circle. We try to grab your attention we playfully flirt or ask for your help on some task that we can do ourselves or struggle to do

[Pohjolan]

Its not making a move if you have plausible deniability.
What you describe is flirting and women who are just flirting for fun while not actually interested may take it much further.

[dustybiker2]

I would never have had a relationship if I didn't. Men would have had to get past all my male friends. And would have proven impossible.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for making the first move of course women do & although in the past it was rare it’s happening more & more these days because guys are making moves less & less.

As for me I always say if you like someone you shouldn’t be afraid to let them know & in life I always say if you never try you will never know.

[Chazmatazz269]

Yes, but rarely. The largest study of its kind showed that only about 15% of women have ever asked a man out, and a negligible percentage practice it as the norm.
Also, there’s lesbianism. How would they ever get together if some women weren’t making the first move? Ell oh ell!

[Anonymous]

Probably not until they find a devilishly handsome rich guy which they think is worthy enough to make a move. And then he rejects them like he does with multiple girls everyday and this makes the girl realise that they are average like everyone else and the Top 1% guy is not going to fall for them

[NamerOfStars]

Do you imagine lesbian couples only get together when someone forces them to date at gunpoint?

Yes, women do sometimes make the first move; it's not common, though it's better than it used to be.

[CriticalCatDad]

No, because their privileged asses think they’re somehow a prize when they’re not. They bring nothing to the table but headaches and drama and pure frustration. I don’t understand why men chase women at all

[CriticalCatDad]

Women should have to prove to men why she’s worth being with

[DishLady]

Sure... but it's more the outcome of that choice that matters.

[Anonymous]

If men have to wait until the woman makes the first move then that's a sign that he's not the right man, men have to make the first move because it shows he's confident and can take charge, and women love confidence, women don't like a shy and timid man, sometimes when a man sees something he wants he needs to man up and take it.

[Unit1]

Ladies, flipping your hair or spying on him doesn't count

[OddBeMe]

I’m studying WW2…. obvi by my posts. And there’s a lot of argument about “turning points.” When did the Nazis start to lose?

Same here. What is the first move? First word spoken? First to ask out for a drink?

[strateguy632]

yes i am out of their leeag so... some who are attracted come to me!

[Jackblue]

Yes, it is less common. Don't feel bad though if it doesn't happen with you, it is to a large extent the result of luck, meeting the sort women willing to do so.

[sheenagwapa]

irl no they shouldn't thry can make friends but not court.

[Nikki1989]

Yes many do. I did many times but had mixed results.

[exitseven]

they do sometimes. Usually the one you want to have make the first move does not.

[Pohjolan]

I have once in my lifetime seen a woman make the first move and she was drunk and he looked like Matt Damon.

[Starrrboy]

They really do.. it's actually not uncommon ( look at the votes ) but a lot of people like to think it's super rare..

[itsclearlynicholas]

If they do, I've not taken any notice or sometimes I've deliberately taken no notice.

[handsomelad70]

They have with me, but consider my username.

[Raaj4you]

Indian girls, a big NO. I don't know about western girls/ women.

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately no and why do I get the feeling this will always be the norm

[Opinion Owner]

Typo error well they do but since it normally doesn't happen and very rarely and why do I get the feeling it'll always be rare