Is she into me or is she just overly nice?

[Anonymous]

Just started talking to this girl at my job. Been like 2 weeks roughy. So, It all started with her calling my phone at work to let me know my customer was here (I work in sales). The next day I text her to let her know I sold 5 cars she set an appt on. She texted back I texted back and she didn't say anything. The next day on Saturday, I was sitting by her and she said she didn't feel like texting me back because I have an android and she's gotta an iPhone blah blah. So, I said, "wow you're just not gonna say anything because of that". She's like, " Buy an iPhone". I told her to buy me one etc. Then asked her if she's got Snapchat? She's like yeah. So, I unlock my phone, open the app and she puts her username in and adds me. We talked a little on Snapchat. Now Thursday of this week, I find out she's gotta boyfriend she's been with for 3~ years. And HE LIVES WITH HER AND HER MOM. I'm like wtf? I heard from some employees they broke up. But, her dad works at the same place we do and he walked up to her and said her bfs cars leaking oil, etc. Now today, I asked her what she was doing over the weekend. She said she was going to hang out with her friends. I asked her if she's ever been to Chicago (the city). She said no. I then asked if she's ever been to any of the museums there. She said no but she wants to go to Shedd aquarium. I then said, "your boyfriend doesn't take you places"? She said no he works Monday-Saturday 8-6. I was testing her so I said, bet let's go. She said okay but not in my car. I was shook. So, I asked her again if she's being forreal? She like shyly said "yeah"... I'm lost.. Is she into me? Just being nice or tired of her boyfriend? Wtf I'm lost

Into you

Overly nice

[8Bit_LYNX]

There’s too many red flags here man. If you want to end up hurt, proceed. If you don’t, run for the hills. 😖

[Asker]

I'm not gonna say anyhing about the whole Shedd aquarium thing. If she brings it up, I mean okay we'll see what happens. If not, I'm not taking here bro. Unless, I get a clear understanding of the whole boyfriend situation.

[8Bit_LYNX]

Are you gonna bluntly ask her if she has a boyfriend?

[Asker]

She said she does to me. I asked her why her boyfriend doesn't take her places. If she didn't have one, she would've said it I would assume.

[Asker]

It just f*cked up how she added me on snap and agreed to basically a date with having a boyfriend. Unless she's losing feelings for him or something I don't know

[8Bit_LYNX]

Have you ever been hurt? Because if you have, then you would know how bad it hurts and you would do anything to avoid that pain again, especially unnecessarily. Think it through as you don’t want to find yourself in a love triangle. If she’s not being clear with you, then you need to assume she’s playing games. There’s no other reason why she’s not being upfront with you.

[Asker]

Oh I've been hurt lol. Trust me

[8Bit_LYNX]

Ok. Just looking out for you little bro

[Asker]

Ima pass on her. I dont want to be no side piece or whatever. If she bring that whole "date" thing I'll just be real with her.

[8Bit_LYNX]

That sounds like the best choice bro. Avoid the hassle and heartache. There’s plenty of girls and pussy out there. Trust me. The one will come, as well as the fun. 💪🏻

[Asker]

Idek if she was playing or being fr. We'll find out soon

[8Bit_LYNX]

Ok. Sounds good. Feel free to add me if you want. ➕

[Asker]

I added you jo

[boobliker]

hey man Just Enjoy what you got while she is with you then if she goes would will have good memory's of her and what you done together be happy and enjoy her time