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My crush seemed as infatuated with me as i was with him. Until a friend told me he's a good kisser and he's had a lot of girlfriends. I don't 100% trust the source but im not gonna ignore it either. So i thought there was no hope and he was a player until i read this article

"Men who date a lot of women usually have bad intentions.

There is a double standard in society when it comes to dating a lot of people. When women embark on an endless journey of dates, society often sympathizes with them, attributing their lack of success to the cliché that there are no decent men out there. The woman is often viewed as the victim who just can't catch a break.

When men engage in the same behavior, the perception is that these men are womanizers, unable commit, flawed or solely out for sex.

Women tend to mentally write these types of men off. This is not always fair.

The reality is that many men date multiple women for the same reasons women date a lot of men. They are looking for "the one." A lot of these perceived players are simply playing the numbers game, hoping to find that special someone as quickly as possible so that they don't have to endlessly date anymore.

While women sometimes assume these men are playboys who are having the time of their lives, in reality, most of these men are exhausted and would love nothing more than to settle down with the right girl. They just have not found the right woman yet and will keep trying until they do."

So this guy i like (He's 15) has had a lot of girlfriends. He started "dating" in middle school so I don't know if half of them even count lol. I'm just worried about it because i had a connection with him i hadn't felt for any of the other guys i've liked. I thought it would be perfect. However my friend has told me somethings about him that (1 he's had a lot of girlfriends (2 he's only dated hispanics- and i'm black (3 he's a really good kisser. It just seems too good to be true, so i was wondering if he was trying to make me feel that way or if it was geniune.

He would do everything to get my attention. He'd stare into my eyes from across the room and help me if he saw i needed it. (we never talked, he'd just come over and help). He'd get jealous and try to make me jealous. I'm shy so he'd speak for me in class. He'd ignore pretty girls that were checking him out around me. Later his friends joked about how he'd approach girls (but i wasn't there).
So this went on for a year and recently we finally talked. He complimented my personality a lot and wouldn't let other guys near me. He tried to stay close to me and kept staring and looking me up and down. The next time i saw him i was talking to someone else (a girl) and he didn't talk to me. Is he messing with me or is he just shy and lkes me alot?

I m around 5'5 tall, 120 pounds, I've got some really nice clothes and high heels (I work as a designer for a haute couture brand), I also like boxing and martial arts, most of my friends are guys, both my guy friends and girl friends think I 've got amazing personality and high EQ. But since I' m a bit chubby and I've got a round chubby face, 17 years in my life have passed and never had a date.
Last year I had a crush on a cute guy, he's cute looking and friendly, he also had a crush on me, but he never ask me out for date because he's more of a player, always dating tall slim girls. All my friends suggest me to lose weight and be more femine, some of them were straight forward and even told me I'm ugly compare to the popular girls he's dating, he'ill probably feel ashame for dating me. It sounds mean but guess it's the truth.
Seriously, is body shape more important than personality?

I am 15 fyi. So there are two guys in this school who have a crush on me according to my friend and they both want to ask me to the Valentine's Day dance. They are both completely different types of guys, one is a very attractive football player and the other is a new guy who seems like a loner and he looks kinda aloof and quiet. I have talked to the football player a few times before, especially on Instagram. The problem is that I tried to flirt a bit by send a heart emoji and do a cute good night text since he seemed to like me. My friend told me that he said it came off too strong and its "too early" since we aren't dating. She also says that he isn't sure if he has a crush on me for sure. She says he might not ask me out because he knows about the love triangle and he thinks I'm not over my ex. He also liked my best friend's instagram pics only with her in them. (Hopefully it doesn't mean anything). He "liked" most of my pics. And then there's the new guy who I haven't talked to yet and he's new to the school and he's in my homeroom. I don't know much about him. He doesn't seem to talk to anyone and I usually see him sitting alone. (Probably cause he's new and he doesn't really know anyone). The problem is, who should I choose?

I am a university cheerleader and on the last mixed social with varsity football team, the captain of football team started talking to me and brought me some drinks, and we talked a lot, then he just walked me to my dorm without talking about sex. He texted me three days later, and we has good chats via text as well. On the last football match, he asked me out on a date. I am about to go on this date soon. I think he is very attractive and we had fun talking. I am super excited for the date but at the same time I am afraid that he doesn't want a serious relationship.
So I guess what I'm asking is that has anyone had any experience dating a football player? (Or football players what do you think of relationships)