Search Results: should i ask her out first date

I wonder which of these locations would you say could be the best choice for people who don't really know each other yet (no previous acquaintance/friendship)?

I would also like to know (this is aimed at guys) - do you like it when the girl offers to split the bill or pay for her own half?
My previous (it happened long time ago) date got slightly hurt over it that I even proposed it. He said he should be paying 'cause he's the dude and the one who asked the other out.

I’m going to try to sum this up as much as I can: I met this guy who’s a 2nd year law student on a dating site a couple months ago. He asked me on the first date, went well, I asked him for the second. Things were fine, he’d text me good morning almost every morning and check in throughout the day.

My issue stemmed from the fact that he hasn’t made an effort to see me in about a month but still texts me everyday (except one night a couple weeks ago, during a trip with his close friends, he was drunk and texted me that he wanted me there with him... turned into some dirty talk on both of our ends but we left it at that and didn’t bring up sex again)

Another issue is that when texting each other, I’d feel like I’m the one carrying the conversation. I believe relationships can’t be built on texts alone and honestly I’d rather FaceTime or call. I asked him to call me once, he said he would, but ended up not doing so.

After the second date, I felt like he was kinda pulling away. We’re both going into finals (I’m finishing my bachelor’s). My whole thing is, I get that law school is super busy. I know that especially around this time of the year, there’s not always time to hang out. I already pointed it out once when I felt he was pulling away and he apologized and explained what was going on with school.

I’m not sure why, but at some point last week, I had enough. He was days away from starting his finals and our conversations were turning into small talk sporadically. I just haven’t responded to him at all and it’s been days.

Part of me feels bad “ghosting” just because I know he’s been super stressed school and finals, and maybe I shouldn’t take this personally. The other part of me feels like he’s really not interested (I’ve felt this way for a while, we’re also both still active on the dating site) so it’s better for me to just walk away instead of waiting for him to do so. What do you think I should do?

I met this man in a mall while he was driving on his Mazda car. He was pretending to ask me where is this place to talk to me and offered me a ride. But I rejected him, and so he was just asking for my number.

He keeps texting for a week now, and we dated once. On our first date, he doesn't want to give me his name, where he live and his age, which is kinda weird. He told me, he doesn't give information about him during the first meet, and he wants to meet me again. I also asked him to show me some pictures on his phone album, and he said he had none, and show they are all empty. And when I asked him to add me on Facebook, it is empty too. It's very weird.

He also offered me to go to his place the next day, but I said No. And said, it will be ridiculous to go with him after our first date. And he said, that he is serious to me which is sometimes doubtful to his actions. I asked about his historical ex-girlfriends, but he doesn't say much and only said he recently was meeting a girl a year ago who works in a bank they slept together but no relationship.

He dropped me home after our first date. He mentioned, he was so attracted by my legs when he saw me at the mall. And later he asked me to kiss him on his lips. He said just a smack, but I rejected him again and said we are not in relationship? And he asked me to kiss on me on my cheek. And I said fine. And went out from the car. He keeps texting him until even if I turned him down or push him away.

Is he a Playboy or a player and should get rid of him? Please vote and comment.