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Do you think it's that people think they deserve something better?

Do you think it's that people don't want to put themselves out there. Expect somebody to chase them. (be it man or woman)

Or do you think it's something else. Write in the "something else"

Hi, I met this girl back in may 2023, a distance relationship, and we broke up recently. To be shorter I’m gonna say that she used to love me more than I loved her, we both put effort but she always put more, she used to be so excited about me, but recently we broke up because her feelings towards me changed, she isn’t excited about me anymore, and in her heart she doesn’t feel anything about me, she doesn’t feel the way she used to. I made my mistakes and we’ve been through up and downs, but I always gave her love and care. Throughout our relationship I matured and changed, I became a better person and learnt to give her all the love and care she deserved, even before the break up, but it was already too late. She said that there might be even the slightest chance that I can make her fall in love, win her heart again, get her back to me, and despite everything I never lost my hope and I’ll keep working hard for her, because I know that I’m a better man now and I deserve a new chance, even she said that I can have it, so what would you suggest me to do? What should I do to make her fall in love again? I’m in such a pain that I can’t explain by words, I want her back because I really can’t live without her, she was and she is my everything, and knowing that I actually have a chance relieves me but I need help pls, what should I do to get her back?

I am 28. I am a mechanic, 60k a year but long hours. I’ve always been single. I’ve tried dating apps and meeting girls in person but I’m never successful. I tried tinder and in a couple days I got no likes whereas I’ve a friend who got 30 likes in a day.
I am not bad looking, regular joe I think and healthy weight. Although I am 5’9 which places me at further disadvantage.

My experience with dating is that if you wish to find a pretty and nice girl, you need to be really good looking. You gotta be really special and I don’t think that can ever be me.

I feel I deserve better than 0 matches and my pride makes me hate women and give up completely. If I am that disliked then I guess I’m an incel. If I do receive a match it’s typically a girl I find very unattractive ☹️

Do I deserve no women swiping me and being rejected and ignored? I can’t see myself ever having a girlfriend. I have to find something that can entertain me more than any girl can.

As stated, together 6 years total. She cheated on a business trip. Tried marriage counseling but turned out she was still talking to this creep. Clean divorce. I’m now 26 and divorced. Just worried how women my age (24-28) would cure this history. Really not looking to date older etc and I have continued working with the counselor to not carry any of the baggage with me, honestly there isn’t much. I’ve got self respect, she betrayed me and I deserved better. Good riddance.

But I worry how dating looks going forward, if I’m damaged goods to girls my age etc.