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So I've been seeing this guy for a few months now and in the beginning there were some hiccups / scares that made him wanted to end things. We almost ended things a few times. We video called quite a few times for a couple hours which usually sometimes ended up sexual. He has never been in a proper relationship before and he told me he deals with anxiety and he can be an asshole/push people away. He has told me things like he thinks about doing cute shit together etc.

there's been some things that didn't add up.. for example he would call me his girl to others but won't say were a couple when i asked. When we would want to end things the other person would want to make it work. So the last time i said i wanted to end things and he didn't want to and make things work which was a month ago.

Everytime we see each other we always ended up doing something sexual and one time i didn't want to and he was trying to persuay me. He told me he likes me , would compliment me a lot and would want to see me. Even told some of his family about me and friend. He recently told a family members partner about me while he was a bit drunk.

Anyways recently we ended up going all the way and it didn't work out because we were in a car and he tried doing things but gave up easily.

He said it was embarrasing and dissapointed about it. One thing lead to another he ended things and been feeling like this at first 2 weeks then it became a month. He told me he doesn't see a future with me/doesn't feel as strongly as i do, and i wasn't his type. He told me all of this a few minutes after we attempted to go all the way.(before he even agreed to do it a few times before making a decision on what to do)

Prior to that i noticed his texting was off and wasn't saying goodmorning/night etc. When i asked if were good he told me we were. He said he was afraid to tell me because he didn't want to "break my heart"

I've been talking to this guy for a few months and we have only seen each other a couple times we have a lot of similarities/ things in common and we've had a few hiccups along the way but we talked about it and it was all good. Recently we had some fun and got carried away i asked him a question regarding our fun and then one thing lead to another he started freaking out about it saying he's not ready for a kid and he was just stressed all day. He told me he's scared and afraid he couldn't shake this feeling. He said he started thinking about things and saying not sure if he could do it just with everything we've been through. We seem to have something every couple weeks. He has told me that he gets overwhelmed and anxious when it comes to certain things in a relationship and he tends to push people away. He said he feels better better about things after we talked and then i was not sure and he's like we should just end it. He wasn't in the right mind space and still couldn't shake this feeling he had about the whole "pregnancy scare" and he did tell me he still likes me but after i mentioned i need to think about things he mentioned about ending things.