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There are many types of love, we can love romantically, or love our family and friends, etc..

You can read about them here.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/hide-and-seek/201606/these-are-the-7-types-love

There's no way around us humans being social beings, and part of being social, is being heard, accepted, feeling valued and connected. It's a depth of feeling of oneness Unconditionally loved. Someone else has your best interests in mind and won't hurt you. This is what parents are supposed to build up in their children, and good friends and our partner are to be.

I hear the cries... what we are trained to value is wealth...money, and power! That's the worlds message to you because of the fear it places upon you that if you don't have it, you will suffer. You can't buy love with it, only experience. It creates even more problems as the risk of losing wealth creates bad feelings like fear, guilt, murder, anger, spite. If you've ever had wealth and lost it, you know how terrible it feels. But losing a loved one forever, that is the worst. The separation from love is terrible and at that point, money loses it's meaning. Money is really... nothing, only useful in time. Love is eternal, so it feels!

With the "race" tensions projected into our country, there may be cries of "respect", value me. To me, those are components of love. In other words, listen to me... hear me, value me, and stop killing and oppressing me. Love me!

Isn't love what you really seek in life beyond the physical necessities to exist? Check deep inside? Love of your mother or father. Love of your family members. Love of a mate. Love of your friends? What does your heart say?

To be completely honest here I’m biased toward tanned skinned women. Which is why I’m typically most attracted to mestizo and Asian women.

Then again my preferences could change over time. I used to have a thing for blonde women but that has since faded. I used to have childhood crushes but those have since went away.

I don’t consider it racism. As people change preferences change. Speaking from my own experience here.

And that isn’t to say that someone’s race alone removes them as a dating potential, but rather that their race alone isn’t part of what you considered attractive about them. But who knows maybe they’ll be a day when I find black women the most attractive. Until then I’ll focus on what’s the most important: the individual.

If so why?