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So we were having a group convo. The topic was a friend of mine wanted to buy an item but his wife said no. (Note: their in a traditional relationship. He works she stays at home. He also does the cooking, and helps with the cleaning. And take care of costs of live rent etc.) So they were having an argument, and asked for an input. The girls said that he should listen to his wife and that if he didn't need said item he should save the money. Than one of my guy friends said and I quote, "that if she (meaning the wife) isn't helping pay no bills. Than she shouldn't be tell him how to spend his own goddamn money." The girls got mad and said that their married so it's their money. It goes towards improving the household. Just the same as her money would. The guy responded that she doesn't work so she doesn't even make money. That all the money that comes into the house hold is his money. So it's his choice on how it's used. So who do you agree with and why?