Search Results: signs that she wants to be chased

I asked a guy out we both seem to like each other , but he was a bit weird about it. At that point i forgot about it.

Then, a month later her asked me out shyly and i was interested though a bit caught off guard bc of his earlier behavior. I genuinely had plans, so i had to tell him that.

After several weeks of hanging out with friends as we often do , I got the feeling he was still interested based on his behavior and things he said. I tend to down play signs so as not to assume wrongly, so I was not sure.

I also, wanted to make a decision as to if id move on or not as we have known each other over a year. So one day after playing chess, I asked him out. Which to me seems 100% rational.

He responded exasperated, as if i he had asked me 100 times and I kept saying no.

OR as if he had said no 100 times and i had asked him 101 times.

It does not make sense, and I do not like him insinuating i am out of line for simply asking him if he wants to hang out. I am not in a rush, I do not mind waiting but waiting -in the case he is interested, is entirely different than just wasting time-in the case he is not interested.

Why should not i ask and why should not he tell me.. I feel like i am in the twilight zone. He was perfectly friendly moments before , how can he get angry so quickly.

Some guys suggested he is angry bc i am not letting him chase me. Well, i guess if he wants a chase that is his choice and no one is forcing him to go after someone who does not want to be chased. It does not explain him getting angry. I am not into games, am i expected to change who i am?

I only asked twice and only bc he was not clear HOWEVER, I have seen guys suggest ask until you get a hard no-so you can move on with no doubt. Sounds logical. I am not against this, though it seems this is not meant for Women. We are supposed to just guess or wait or roll over and play dead until the guy says sit?

I've been reading about crazy people overall. Latest I've read was about a woman throwing a pair of scissors at her bf's face (cutting part of his left side) during an argument. She didn't want him to drink a pair of beers with friends and got jealous.

A long while back, I've also read about an ex boyfriend that chased the woman (he couldn't take NO for an answer), poured gasoline and lit her on fire. She died after 2 years of fighting for her life and left behind 2 daughters.

If someone sane ever gets into a relationship or even gets married... are there obvious signs the partner is going to have that type of extreme reactions (if you decide to end the relationship or marriage)? Even before those incidents happen, I'm wondering if there were early warning and obvious signs that were ignored?