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Who are your favorite celebrity couples? Name a few & pick 1 from my ‘favorites list’ below:

• Tom + Zendaya ( Letter H)

And an extra nice photo :

(All images sourced from Google)

I chose my list based upon bonds/chemistry, how they treat each other & the wholesomeness. Love the way they look at each other, what they do the other, how they speak to each other/ spend their time together- when together, & overall just their visual aesthetic. Love all of them with all my heart. A few of them remind me of my husband & myself & I just see couples differently now. I’m not like a hater/ hopeless. I genuinely smile when I see these couples on medias making memories &/or just having a good time. It’s nice to see the mutual respect & affection. Some of them having similar goals & lifestyles, & just the overall togetherness. I don’t think honestly there’s any couple as wholesome as these!

* Hana sim + David have genuinelyyy made me laugh many times. They’re down to earth.

Alice + Alex are inspiring with their consistent health regimen & time for chill/ fun. They get along well & I can tell their love is kept private which I respect 100%.

Beast + Marcus are very affectionate & gentle with each other & always do surprises/ say how much they love each other.

I love the respect shared between Nick + Priya. Nick has embraced her culture & they seem just to hold each other to high esteem while balancing private life.

Jen + Ben lol - literally capture my heart with the long lost love & you can see their happiness of finally being together after mistakes of youth & almost missing out on a happy experience in life.

Their respect, affection, goofiness, dedication, & loyalty won my heart & reminds me always to give the same to my baby. When u find someone who deserves the world, u just want to give them a dozen of them 😆 It’ll never seem to be enough.

Which matters more to you? The destination or the journey you take to get there.

This saying may mean different things to different people.

It can mean that stopping to smell the roses and and enjoy your way to your goals is important.

It can also mean that the little things you do on your journey add up to get you to your destination.

On the other hand, it can also mean that all of life is a journey that never ends. There's only the illusion of there being a destination to reach.

What does it mean to you, and how do you feel about this saying?

I'm inspired by the philosophical alternatives it inspires for different perspectives on what life really means, what we are all doing here, and how we go about it. When I first heard it, what I do in each moment became more important than rushing towards the next goal. No more missing out on all of the little things.

I packed the kids in my car and took a spontaneous trip to join a Rainbow Family Gathering and just breathe, live, relax, and enjoy the here and now.

I no longer had end goals for working out, just learning to enjoy the act of working out and viewing fitness as a side effect of that rather than a goal. Fitness suddenly became a fun habit rather than a chore.

I focused on just enjoying the simplest natural foods rather than dieting. Having a massive bowl of fresh fruits and veggies for breakfast and lunch without any obsession. Just enjoying the taste and look of something healthy for me. Again, my health and fitness became side effects rather than stress ridden goals.

On road trips it became much more common to pause many times along the way. On vacations, winging it on a daily basis became normal.

Big career goals and pushing to work harder and harder became things that either happen or don't based on our own personal enjoyment with our work.

The risks:

• Everyone at your workplace might find out
• You might develop feelings for him
• He or you might lose your job
• He might catch feelings for you, and if you leave him he might sabotage you
• He will talk about your intimacy with other males at work, exposing you sexually
• You as a woman, will be called every degrading name in the book
• If relationship develops, he will cheat due to him being attractive
• Other females will feel jealousy or envy and try to sabotage you and steal him from you because again (he’s hot)

Pros:

• You will receive sexual satisfaction, and your sexual goals will be met.
• Your ego will be lifted momentarily because you smashed the hottest man in town.
• there's a tiny chance this individual could potentially become your future husband, soul-mate, and father to your children.
• You will be under the delusion of being in love during the time that you enjoy his presence and his attention
• It will be such an amazing experience for a while , and can completely obliterate any boredom in your life and/or depression.
• Smashing the Hot Guy at work. Could be a once in your lifetime experience. Never again to occur.

WHAT SO YOU CHOSE, YES OR NO.

It seems like people only select a partner purely just base one emotions/feelings and infautation but not seek important qualities such as these for instance, don't actually take the time during the vetting process:

- Does the person even shares similar goals?

- How do they get along with their families or are they all dysfunctional?

- Are you guys compatible in other areas?

- Besides the great feelings and passionate love and sex... yes he/she is the love of your life but what other great qualities they have?

So do you think falling in love is overrated? I get that being in love is a great experience but is it really worth staying when the person if you guys don't share anything in common at all and will then likely have arguments once the infatuation period fades?