I moved to my fiancé’s home state since long distance became too much and I’ve been treated like a little sister than a damn fiancé. We don’t sleep together, there hasn’t been any dates, we can hardly have sex without his family interrupting and now he starts unnecessary drama.
Earlier this week he got upset about something small and we didn’t talk for 3 days. We eventually talked it out and I told him when shit needs to be discussed you always walk away.
Today He gets upset because he’s multitasking and I asked him to get the door for me so I can get in the house. He really didn’t need to cause at the end i found the key so it was as no issue…or so I thought.
As we walk from the back door to the kitchen I say hello to him. He says nothing. I walk away & try again he says nothing. I simply walked to my room and left him alone. He then texts me stating he was upset because I asked him to get the door when he was trying to do multiple things.
I replied:” I'm staying out the way. Cause I'm sick of the attitudes and cold shoulder when the REAL issue ain't with ME. The point is I tried to greet you nicely and you gave me your ass to kiss. I'll get out of your hair so nothing I do can bother you no more.” He replies: “Maybe you are part of the issue but good night.
He’s really upset because he’s the only one taking care of his grandma and he can’t seem to get anything outside of her done. He never has energy he never has time for anything but whatever she needs. I try and help him but when he was mad earlier this week he basically tried to say I was useless.
He doesn’t communicate properly, he can’t stand to hear the truth. My goal was to work part time when I got here so we could spend time and I can start my business up again. But his grandma was so money hungry that NOT working full time wasn’t an option anymore.
Basically cwlly my life is shitty and I’m ready to leave. Sex isn’t even the same since his love isn’t the same…I’m hurt
