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Basically, I was meant to be walking over to his house to visit him tonight after I'd eaten my dinner.

However, he lives in the same suburban area as a guy who tried to force himself (sexually) when I was drunk at the age of nineteen (5 years ago). To be honest, that whole situation took its toll on me, and I never wanted to see the guy's face again, which makes it risky when my current boyfriend lives pretty close to him.

So yeah, as I was about to turn into my boyfriends street tonight, the guy who tried to take advantage of me turned into the street driving his car. I kinda slowed my pace in the hope he'd go into his house before I walked on to the street. But he didn't, he kinda loitered in his car. So I decided not to take the turn off, I just kept walking away from the situation.

I asked my boyfriend to come get me, and I explained why I didn't walk down to his house. He was clearly annoyed (he had been working all day) and seemed moody with me. He then said 'I don't understand why you couldn't just walk 30 metres to my house with your hood up, you had to call me instead' - which got me upset and angry because I really didn't wanna face that guy, it would only bring back bad memories for me.

So I basically then left my boyfriends house after his comment and he was like 'oh so you'll walk past his house now?' And I was so annoyed I was just like 'watch me'. At which point he raced out the house after me and offered to take me home or back to his house if I wanted.

I opted for home, and then he admitted he was being an 'ass hole' but by this time I was crying anyway. So I just exited his car and haven't heard from him since. Did I overreact or am I right in saying he could have been more understanding?

I came across a really offense prank video recently. The guy in the video decided to prank his girlfriend by calling her ugly. She started crying & responded by saying, "well y would u even want to be together with me if you don't find me attractive?" He responded by saying, "I've always dated girls for personality, I have unfortunately never gotten the chance to date anyone who is hot", but of course this was all a lie for the prank, in reality he does think of her as the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, and is in fact the very reason he asked her out from the beginning. He concluded the video by saying this to her in an attempt to make her feel better (she was still pretty mad at him tho)
Now of course the video got a lot of backlash in the comments, saying that he had gone way too far even if it all wasn't true. I am also quite offended, but for a much different reason. When she said "y r u even with me if you don't find me attractive" I don't think she realized that this statement basically claims that anyone who is ugly, or even just average looking in real life, has no chance in getting a relationship. I know for fact that Im ugly. This isn't just a matter of bad self esteem anymore, I legitimately look like an fn swamp-thing/drunken zombie compared to the average girl of today. The only possible way that I could ever get a boyfriend, is if he loved girls for personality only. According to this video & current media ingeneral, the idea of finding an individual appealing, solely based on what's inside just doesn't happen. Sorry to be hypocritical, but I contribute to this possible stereotype, but most likely inevitable part of being human. I have only ever had a crush on a cute boy. Never have I had a crush on someone with average appearance, yet somehow I feel entitled to attention from somebody gorgious, with no more then an average complection myself. It just doesn't work. Pls add to the poll, or comment below about ur thoughts. Thanks.