Search Results: does my weight bother him

1-) In life, we should have certain words filtered, my boyfriend does not seem to have one. I am upset because, he has this tendency of referring to woman as bi***es, ”oh tha b*tch does this or that, in a very despotic way, he does not say this all the time, but once he does, it just bothers me, makes me mad. Why in the world, would a man referr to a woman like this, its so disgusting!

2-) Whenever I’m in positive vibes, he seems to suck my good vibe away ( they call this an ”emotional vampire”) once he comes and picks me up, whenever I get in his car uuugh, he always says something that bothers me, example:”your breath smells like mint, I don’t like mint, or your perfume is too strong”, instead of greating me nicely, boom he says something that’s not nice. Believe me I rather have good breath, than not a stinky one and my scent is not overpowering, it’s just a clean cologne.

3-) Whenever he can, he points out something negative, oh your butt, you need to do squats, your too skinny, you need to gain 5 pounds, I tell him ”I love myself like this” if you don’t like it, then I’m sorry, and all he says is, ”well your going to stay alone”

4-) This one is the one that I notice the most, when I am looking pretty, have my hair down flowing, cutely dressed, etc, he will say something negative, ”oh your hair is thin, whats wrong’, your butt is sagging, Mind you none of these are true to my knowledge, my hair is medium thickness, and my butt, is a little smaller after I lost weight, but not sagging.

5-) I feel, as if Everything has to be on his terms, that’s how I see it, can you imagine we only see eachother once a week, or once every 2 weeks, we dont even manage to see eachother on the weekends Like normal couples do!.