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I just came up with the idea. Like, they ween heroin addicts off heroin, right? So what if you did the same thing for a partner you were going to break up with?

So, you let someone know that you're going to break up with them at a specific time. Say, in a month. Then you see them less and less over that period. Like, getting them used to being without you.

Do you think it would provide a more stable break up, or just make the pain worse? Like, I've always been a firm believer in clean breaks, but maybe for some vulnerable people that is too abrupt?

I realize this isn't ideal for the terminator, though. After all, you're sacricing by spending time with someone you wanna break up with. But people do that anyway, while figuring out how to break the news.

I am very much an advocate of free speech. "I may not agree with what you say but i will defend your right to say it... unless you're a pompous prick about it" But this era of political correctness has everyone pissing themselves to delve into deeper topics leaving nothing but mindless small talk which is not only harmful but boring.

In fact in a Washington post article a couple months back, they claimed that Forty percent of Americans under age 35 tell pollsters they think the First Amendment is dangerous because you might use your freedom to say something that hurts somebody else’s feelings. 40%! I don't care where you stand, that's disturbing man!

Also this #metoo thing is getting out of hand. In fact it's making me worried about doing anything beyond keeping women at arms length, cause i don't know what I'm gonna get. Hell Recently Chris Hardwick just got #metooed after a recent breakup right? and the only reason his career isn't just over instantly is because one of his female coworkers and 3 of his ex's literally came to his rescue.

Not to mention that Ironically enough, republicans were the ones championing equal rights for minorities and women, abolishing slavery and giving everyone the right to vote, while democrats were the ones championing slavery, treating black people as property, a democrat was the one who assassinated Lincoln, Created the KKK, did everything they could to block the civil rights act of 1964. And when all that failed Lyndon Johnson basically said. "I'll have them n****rs voting democrat for 200 years" basically saying. If we can't keep them down, we might as well have them voting for us.

And now we got ourselves a culture where everyone is trying to play the victim, it's always someone else's fault, and anyone who is a minority is disadvantaged, held down and are just too incompetent to do anything themselves.

And keep in mind all of this is coming from a black man... I cannot in good conscience stay a democrat knowing this.

Have you considered calling it quits altogether yet, or do you still hope to find "love"?

Are you still hoping that you'll have be married and be "happy" with someone eventually?

If not, then have you considered to remain single indefinitely from here on out?

I mean just considering it, even for once, call it quits altogether on future relationships.

I mean, supposedly that if your most recent breakup was an absolutely awful fucking heartbreaking experience that is, would you then at least not consider it. I mean do you still want to try and risk it all over again getting your heart broken, cheated on, lied to, abused, or whatever, etc?

Or would you accept the possibility and be open to remaining single indefinitely at this point? I mean can it really be any worse? If you decide to call it quits altogether you can become free, live free, do your own thing, your own way, and not have to give a fuck about what anybody else feel, think, says, etc. about you. You wouldn't have to answer to somebody else. Look on the bright side of it, it's a whole new journey that awaits you! You know what they say? The grass is greener on the other side.