Search Results: looks vs personality

Robot
1. Lifelike and feels like the real thing, right down to sexual intercourse
2. Comes with a personality of your choosing, capable of learning and evolving based on stimuli it receives throughout the world and has independent thought.
3. Can display all spectrum of emotions
4. Can look like anyone you want it to look like
5. Can modify it's appearance in terms of skin tone and hair
6. Cannot have kids with it
7. Does not age

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Real Girl
1. Can display all spectrum of emotions
2. Capable of independent thought and learning from her environment.
3. May or may not be capable of having children.
4. Will age
5. Can alter her hair color and hairstyle
6. Is the real thing

For starters men basically only care about looks and personality for the most part and their standards for looks aren't even that high. A man is willing to commit get with an average girl who makes minimum wage and he finds attractive even if he makes like 5-6x her salary.

As long as she is a lovely person, and is attractive to him at least. In fact, men who are in better place in life consistently throughout history have dated down and loved a woman who had nothing to offer him but her looks and personality. We see this even with celebrities today like Henry Caville.

[Women often think men only care about looks but they fail to realize personality is also important. Hence, why less men are checking out in relationship these days and marriage. Being pretty shell, and giving out great sex is not enough to keep a man girls;we aren't that easy.]

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Women who despite media and women claiming personality is most important often have other criteria that must be added with the personality for a man to be given a chance at dating them.

For a lot of women you either need meet all their physical criteria to be given a chance which often includes being tall, athletic body and good looking to be given a chance with them and have a good personality (this may not be needed for some girl) if you lack money and/or status.

However, women are willing to lower on looks if you bring money and/or social status.

In short a personality alone and being decent looking will never get you the girl as a man. However, being very good looking with a personality (optional) will get you the girl or if you aren't a girl physical ideal then a LOT of money and/or status.

So aren't women more shallow of the two genders since to them you either need to be insanely hot and/or bring materialistic things to the table to be given a chance with them?

Would you rather your SO was drawn towards you because of physical attraction or personality?

In other words would you rather they were attracted and wanted to get with you because they were very physically attracted to you. And while they do like your personality one of the main driving force for them being with you was because they found you hot.
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Would you rather your SO was drawn towards you because of your personality and while they do find you ok looking it was not the main driving force for being with you.