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Don't get me wrong, I don't avoid other guys, and I get along just fine with other guys. But it seems that all my closest friends seem to all be women with the exception of like 2 or 3.

I'm not even necessarily effeminate, not by a long shot, but I'm not "as manly" as American society expects me to be. I don't mind playing sports with a few friends once in a while, but I definitely don't watch sports, and I don't know a lot about them besides a few basic rules. I also couldn't care less for anything car related. Sure, I can fix things around the house, but that's because I kind of have to, not because I'm "trying" to be manly.

My interests all tend to be associated with nerds or with geeks, neither of which are effeminate, but not manly either. Writing, drawing, singing, cooking, playing video games, analyzing TV shows/movies, reading, making comics, swimming, walking for exercise, etc.

This alone probably isn't why I tend to get along better with girls though. The reason is because I'm very expressive of my emotions and like to give people compliments, and among-st other guys this tends to come off as "gay."

Close guy friends also tend to insult each other a lot, and though I can appreciate it in moderation, in my opinion if excessive it can get old and FAST. And the majority of my male friends can't go without saying something like, "Hey what took you so long you fucking cock sucking son of a bitch" when seeing each other. Some may find it genuine and lovely among-st bros, but I was never a fan.

And as such... I get along better with girls, and my closest friends are almost all girls. We tease each other once in a while, but we can also conversate normally and compliment each other as well. Guys often seem to have like an 80% balance of just pure insulting, which turns me off.

Is this a bad thing though?

To get the basic shit out of the way, I'm 18, at the end of high school.

Going back to my early life, like childhood... sorry if this sounds edgy, I was always kind of different than most people around me, and not necessarily in a good way.

Most boys my age were interested in stuff like football, toy cars, and toilet humor; while I was more interested in drawing, toy dinosaurs, and didn't find toilet humor funny at all.

I don't know if I'm super socially awkward, but I've always been rather introverted, and never exactly practiced social interaction as much as I should. Therefore, meaning I'm probably not as socially experienced as I should be.

These days... not much has changed. I'm kind of the same person I was as a kid, but I just added onto that.

These days, my interests consist of drawing, writing, watching TV/shows/YouTube videos, reading, cartoons/animation/anime, walking on the treadmill for exercise, swimming, singing, etc.

None of my interests seem to be exactly socially acceptable or popular. Most guys seem to just be interested in sports, wrestling, cars, and beer... while those don't exactly appeal to me.

In social situations, I try to be as kind as I can to people, but can never truly connect because I run out of things to say pretty easily.

I do feel better though on the rare instance where I can just be myself, and stop worrying about what others think, and just do the hobbies I like that I listed earlier.

I'm sort of going off topic now... but with the information given about me, do I have a chance for a relationship with a girl? Would a girl/woman ever show interest in me?