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I believe most women still deep down prefer that men approach them first. They don’t like the guesswork and risk of the rejection. They also like the attention. When someone approaches you it puts you in the drivers seat to accept or reject. It makes you feel wanted and valuable.

However I do believe more women are approaching men nowadays. However it’s definitely not a 50/50 balance. Only a small (yet growing) minority of women are confident enough to take that risk.

Also a lot girls who say they are “approaching” men are really just getting close to the man’s presence vs. directly talking to him, asking for a number and a date. There is a difference.

(29yo straight dude) I stay away from the social media but it’s hard bc I still have just Snap and a YouTube account. Never tweeted, no insta, and deleted my fb in 2013. When out at bars, if i somehow stumble upon exchanging numbers, nowadays, “Instagram?” Is expected before the number. Lol I’ve had buddies with insta follow girls I’ve talked to at bars and it sucks the not being a part of the media makes me feel like an outcast when I just hate all the time consuming clout we gotta worry about. Everyone posts fake bs and pretends to be fancier, tougher, edgier, richer, and even funnier than they really are or ever will be. It drives me me nuts everybody’s a rapper, a TikTok dancer, a “” professional chef, fitness influencer only fans face maker and they all flex so hard with their belongings, causing everyone to think this is what life is all about and we can all just quit her jobs and become influencers. Now I don’t hear anybody doing any of this for fun but there’s definitely ones that take it way too serious and to me that’s a problem I can only see you getting worse in the future, which is a great reason why I take no part as best as I can. I’m not ultimately against the media. It’s hard for me to do it soft and I only use it for advantages, and I finally need to post things for clout and that’s just on Snapchat with my small private circle.