Are some people just aren’t built to be slender?

AutisticLonelyWoman

One of my cousins is naturally slender. She is about 5’8” and she is curvy but she is slender. She like 144lbs (approximately) toned tummy, slender beautiful legs and she just looks good in a lot of clothes.

I have another cousin who’s larger built than her. She used to be overweight and she was overweight all her life and never been slender and was always jealous of the thin/slender women and girls. She was about 217lbs (approximately, I’m not telling you her real weight) and now she’s 186lbs and she said she can’t go lower than that and her body won’t let her. The family kept telling her to stop losing so much weight and kept reminding her that she’s very tall and the numbers on the scale doesn’t define her health of her body size and throw the scale out.

One of our older cousins told her and me we don’t need to lose anymore and men love women with more thickness and booty.
She’s 5’10 and currently 186lbs and probably are telling her she getting too thin but our 5’8” cousin is natural thin, medium built and nobody says anything to her. No one. She’s been told she’s too skinny and she needed to eat.
I’m 6’0” and large built that’s currently 212lbs. I used to be thin until I hit puberty and then I hit 252lbs in grade 11.

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She also gets jealous of women and girls in crop tops with toned or flat bellies. Even some girls with a little belly looks amazing in crop tops. I told her bigger girls can wear crop tops and rock it.
Are some people just aren’t built to be slender?
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