Girls, Is this shit normal or is this girl just a special case?

[TooHot2Care]

Ill spare y’all the details or the texts and the flirting that led up to this date.

We went to a club to go dancing , she was in a tiny dress and she started saying sketchy shit.

Her ex was basically there.

She danced with other girls and moved AWAY from me.

Another girl blocked me out and she LET her.

she gave one of those girls her number.

I whispered into her ear to have fun, left and she chased me.

we made out or should I say she jumped me.

then told me she was going home with another guy (the ex I mentioned ) . I assumed this was a test.

Repeat once more but without the mention of the ex this time.

Like….. is this normal shit from y’all now?

Am I supposed to just…. Expect y’all to dance with other girls and she dances with other people and disrespect me like that?

Cuz, if I don’t hear a “no” , I’m becoming toxic. Idgaf anymore…. This is getting to be too much.

Updates

+1 y

Update: to clarify? We went to my place and fucked.

But I hated how I got treated.

[Changiis07]

So you have been on other dates before and it led to this right? I mean it sounds like she isn't over her ex yet. Did you ask serious questions on your date before actually wanting to get to know her? Because all you have to do is ask and listen to what they say. Are they ready for a relationship, how long has it been since their last relationship and what happened. Has she cheated before etc. When people start to take interest in someone whether male with female or vice versa it's best to ask all the questions beforehand. She's being disrespectful to you if this was a date plus if she was drunk/tipsy prob didn't realize what she was doing

[TooHot2Care]

It was our first date, it’s not like I interview every girl I flirt with on the road to a date… Maybe I should. 😂

[Changiis07]

Okay well it just sounded like it was a few dates that led up to this one. I mean if you want someone as a serious relationship and marriage then yes but if it's not that serious then no you don't have to interview them. Overall you know where her mind is at from that date then because if you want a girlfriend a good one they should bring you peace plus the club isn't a place to meet decent people

[TooHot2Care]

I met her at the gym. 😅

[TrueConfection]

My daughter saw a girl do this same thing to a guy. She told me the story because she was disgusted by the girl's behavior. So, maybe it's not uncommon? I don't know. But, it's definitely not the norm.

[Anonymous]

She’s just inconsiderate and doesn't care. Cut her off.

[TooHot2Care]

She dumped me a week after the date. Three days after the date however, she said some “things”….😒

[Akam93]

Some girls are crazy and manipulative. Move on and find a beautiful lady.

[ugotgamesonyophone]

I don't know if it's common but it's definitely not me. I don't even go clubbing.

[Nandenayo3sma]

Don't her of but Don't care also All I can say is that

[Anonymous]

This isn't going anywhere. Move on.

[TooHot2Care]

Lady, she dumped me like….3 weeks ago and I literally met what I thought was a nice girl 2 days later but…. Anyway~ yeah, already moved tf on.

[EclipsedMoonlight]

No that's fucked up.

[RosyBeak100]

Simp

[TooHot2Care]

HOW. DARE.