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My ex boyfriend of 13 months still wants to see me and has me sleeping over at his house and was begging me to come back and saying he misses me tons and that he loves me and that I’m beautiful. We had broken up back in June cuz he felt like I didn’t appreciate him - but he knows I do care for him tons cuz I always show him, and a day later he was with another woman making out with her and he goes on dates with her on the weekends...

he was telling me that this woman can be very hurtful and mean and she has an angry temper... she has also publically humiliated him and said lies that weren’t true as well... there are also trust issues between them. He also doesn’t feel comfy to tell her his deep dark secrets (that he was in jail before) that I know. This woman also says stuff to make him look like a bad guy and that he apparently said rotten things about me which weren’t true... she’s also very public while he is very private.

He tells me he doesn’t love this woman only cares for her and that it’s me that he has more history with and that I have qualities/ character traits that she doesn’t have : kindness, caring, patience, honest, loyal, etc... he also says it’s me that he wants a future with but he’s torn cuz of past misunderstandings that we had- his mom and my mom getting involved, etc...

we hugged all nite in bed and he muttered under his breAth in his sleep that he loves me more than I know and he had his arms around me all nite long and kissed my neck in his sleep also... he also got me a meaning full birthday gift which means something to me cuz it’s a 🧜🏻‍♀️ mermaid and he knows that’s my fave Disney film. He also hugs me very tightly and always helps me out.. he begs me to come over and to spend time together as well...

is this other woman a rebound? Does he want me back you think and is he regretting the break that we took?

ps this woman is the total opposite of me- an angry bitch and a goth..., I’m the sweet sensitive girly type

My ex boyfriend and I were together for a whole year and living together. We had a few arguments during the month of June and he went on a date with a girl on June 28th and we had a fight about it and we broke up.
Me and him were getting serious and talking about future plans for us and his mom even taught me about the Jewish holidays and invited me over for Passover and treated me to a manicure...

Now 4 weeks later they are saying they love each other and that he’s very crazy about her... she’s the total opposite of me - gothic punk aggressive type and I’m a sweet sensitive girly type... he’s a classy guy who wears suits and likes to dress up...
they talk openly on Facebook and he talks lovey dovey with her in the open... he’s a private person and none of his dates/ relations were ever out in the open...
he tells me he still loves me and wants to work stuff out between us yet he’s also dating this chic

is he in a rebound? Is this an infatuation? Or is he really in love with her?

Last year my father and I beat my sister's abusive ex boyfriend. It was confirmed by mutual friends and the guy's own mother that he was abusing her. She once showed up with bruises on her arm and blamed it on the gym. Another time she was seen crying and wouldn't tell us what's going on.

I have to admit that he was almost even in the fight with my father... dad was getting him a bit more but he wasn't going down easily until I made that happen. I joined in by having a good angle and delivering a kick from behind. Fight ended right there. While my father isn't the type to further hit someone that's on the ground (unable to get up after what I did), as a finishing I proceeded to spitting in his face and placing my pet spider (a tarantula, what he hates the most) over him.

Good news is my sister was going to break up but it was so hard for her. She did already but she's thinks what I did was more disgusting and worse than what my father did to him. What? I think that POS deserved it all. Is it ever right to take revenge (physically) against an abuser?