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They have just told you that you are their everything.
They expect a lot out of you. If you can clean the room up in 20 min, they now expect you while you are sick to clean up the entire house in 20 min.
You have to take care of the house, finances, cars, and kids and everything in between.
They rely on you to love them. They don't love you in return.
You have to forgive them, not be jealous of them... you have to not have any feelings. They know it all, they expect you to treat them with love/like the king/queen. You have to ask them out to a place, you have to plan everything. You have to make the effort to ask them out. They will say no 10000x but they will never ask you to do something you love, but you have to ask them only. They will say no a lot but then they expect you to keep asking. If you don't, they will get super angry at you.

My husband just recently told me that he depends on me for EVERYTHING. I have to do all the research on how to make our marriage better. How to raise our kids better. How to handle our finances better. How to EVERYTHING. He just wants to have EVERYTHING taken cared of and loved correctly, but he won't do the same for me. He will actually be in my way and make things hard for me with my kids, finances and so on. If I want to save, he will spend 1000000 more, if I want my kids to grow up in a democratic kind of family... with choices... he will do the opposite but he still depends on me to have perfect finances and perfect children.

What would you do? would you be ok with handling everything and everything being your fault?