Search Results: all relationships are complex

So to most of us, I bet that when it comes to a relationship, stuff like race, skin color, and hair color matter to an extent. So if it was just the question in general without the word "A LOT", I'm sure pretty much everyone would pick "yes." And I would too.

But by "A LOT" I mean in the sense that you'd stop being in a relationship with someone who's attractive, who cares for you, who's a good person, etc... all because their skin, or hair, or racial facial features combination aren't your number 1 exact favorite.

In that case, the answer is "no" for me. I've seen attractive and unattractive women of all races, skin color, and hair color combinations. I've seen in shape and out of shape women of all races, skin color, and hair combinations. I've seen genuine nice and kind women and really nasty women of all races, skin color, and hair combinations. And the list just goes on.

Yes, there ARE certain combinations I like more and less than others. I usually don't like overly dark skin, or overly light skin. I usually just prefer moderately fair skin, or moderately brown skin... or best of all, a perfect 50/50 in between, slightly tanned olive skin! I usually prefer dark hair over light hair. I usually prefer White women over Black and Asian women. But White women with a slight tan, not the super pale ones.

But when it comes to an actual long term relationship, it's a bit more complex than just that. I wouldn't mind a really dark skin woman with light hair, if she was physically fit, had a nice face, and was a kind, trusting person who cared about me. Initially, for a woman I don't know, I'd prefer a White woman with a slight tan, and dark hair... but since I truly love her, she's the most beautiful woman in the world to me, regardless of her race, skin, or hair. :)