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Most marriages end in divorce. Women initiate divorce 80% of the time. Divorce is incredibly unfair to the guy - as the woman can essentially steal your belongings. If you owned a nice car, she can essentially steal if from you. Oh, and take your kids, and force you to pay for them while other men discipline and abuse your kids.

Marriage is too risk. Would you go skydiving if the parachute fail rate was 60% (like marriage)? Doubt it. Also aside from the risks, modern women don't even offer anything in terms of marriage. Modern girls cook? Nope. Wants kids? Not really. Care for you, or do housework for you? Hell no. So... what's the point? What do you get from marriage, as a man? NOTHING.

Girls basically wanna get married after they spend their youth sleeping around and doing all sorts. Then, they know their looks will fade soon, so they pretend they are near-virginal and pretend to be wife material. Then you marry her and she nags, takes your money and barely has sex with you... even though in college she would let three guys (strangers) take turns with her... so yeah. If you marry as a guy: you get cucked and ROBBED by the woman and the law.

That being said, do you agree that marriage is one of the stupidest things a modern man can do?

Guys are expected to approach her, ask for her number, then ask her out a few days later, then to say the right things to win her over, spend money on her, take the initiative and the leading with everything, decide where you're going to take her, initiate conversation and keep it going, ask questions, make the move towards going for the first kiss, and advancing towards sex. Guys are expected to risk rejection, while she goes on feeling validated for the rest of the day and not caring about how hurt the guy is. Girls aren't expected to do any of this and they rarely do.

Met this girl (24) online who moved to my city 2 years ago for work and things moved fast. One 3 hour dinner at a restaurant & I got the impression that she was a complete "goody two shoes." We had so many values in common... so I thought :/
2nd date she invited me over and we slept together, which caught me off guard. She initiated everything, but I went with it b/c it felt special. I didn't finish and she said "I'm sorry I'm not very good at this" which got me thinking she had not been with many people.
2 wks later we were in a relationship & the only thing I knew about her past was her one and only 9 month relationship & some dating that didn't work out. A week later at 11:30pm she gets a missed call & text from a guy saying "Hey, I miss you." She explained it was a guy she dated earlier in the year. No big deal she didn't even reply.

A week ago and a text form her ex for a valid reason created another awkward situation, which led to me asking dangerous questions. How old she was when she lost her virginity & how many guys she had slept with? I didn't think I would get unsavory answers, but I did.

She lost her V at 20/21 (not a big deal), told me I was the 8th guy she had slept with & the last guy was 4/5 months before me. With her only being 24 & a 9 month relationship in there I did the math. From the time she broke up with her ex there was an 18 month period where she slept with 6 guys. Very unsavory info, but it gets worse... 2 of them were one night stands where she invited the guys over to her apmt the very first time, the other 4 she slept with after only 2-4 dates and one turned into a friends with benefits situation for 2 weeks :/

We have already BOTH fallen for each other hard and I'm devastated. She feels AWFUL, said she was lonely & admits the mistakes & how stupid she was. I feel like she was only after sex, had no respect for herself, didn't learn from the mistakes & am having a hard time seeing her as the same person I thought she was.