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Search Results: help self esteem
What should I do to help my girlfriend lose weight?
I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years now, both of us are in our late 20s and we live together. When we met she wasn't skinny by any means (I love a nice booty), but she had a flat stomach and well defined curves. Fast...
Anonymous
(36-45) What are some things a woman can do to find a men?
So I am someone who got called ugly growing up, I never really had any friends I was mostly a loner introverted girl with zero confidence and very low self-esteem, as I have gotten older While I am still introverted and I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it shameful going to your parents for financial help?
I’m trying so hard to increase my income. Slowly, it is happening. But to be considered for my new job (with much higher salary), a car is required. I have been a bike commuter and have been ashamed about that, but have...
Jaminabelle070
Xper 5 Age: 34 Does anyone else relate/ how do you get past it?
So, as a kid/teenager I was DEFINITELY not anyone's romantic interest. I was kind of a weird, chubby kid and got called creepy a lot. I was asked out as a joke more than once and generally bullied by (almost exclusively)...
Anonymous
(30-35) Life's Lessons for the Real World
You are not given a choice to come into this world. It just happens and you don't get to decide. As a child, you grow up and do what you're told because you want to be good. Having abusive parents, you realize that no...
kclark30
Xper 6 Age: 48 Do you think therapy can help me? Has it helped you before?
I was sexually abused when I was 16 and I have some bad memories from when i was a child. I've been really considering therapy and I think maybe it could help me since like I don't ever talk about these things to anyone...
zaharuh
Xper 6 Age: 26 I’m 20 and have never dated or had a real girlfriend?
I've never really thought about how old I am and how I still have never had any legit romantic relationships until I read a comment on Instagram that made me realize how odd/bad of a position I’m in. Growing up I had...
kindoftired
Xper 2 Age: 24 Is my personality that bad?
I'm always getting ghosted after first dates or after guys get to know me more. Before they tell me how pretty, gorgeous, beautiful I am, some had crushes on me for a while but right after they get to know me they either...
Anonymous
(25-29) My Experience Struggling with Depression, Body Dysmorphic Disorder, and Never Being "Good Enough"
This is just me getting my personal thoughts out of the way. For a very long time now, I've felt depressed about my physical appearance and the way I looked. I had something called Precocious Puberty, to where for some...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 Giving myself two years?
Hi everyone , it's been a while and a few things have happened since I've been on last. New jobs in the security industry and moved out into my own place for my independence. However my anxiety and depression have become...
Gavilar1
Xper 6 Age: 29 Should I let my boyfriend believe that he is really stronger then me?
My boyfriend is almost the exact same height and weight as me plus I can kick him in his nuts but he still thinks he is stronger then my and I think it helps his self esteem for some reason to believe that I couldn't just...
Anonymous
(18-24) Having excess body hair makes me highly insecure & hampers self esteem?
Can anyone help me out because having excessive body hair makes me feel insecure, inferior to the other men n women since they're having so bare skin naturally and hampers my self esteem and self worth too especially...
lifeisodd1
Xper 1 Age: 29 My boyfriend likes this girls profile pictures, but rarely like my profile pictures.. do I have the right to be upset?
I called him tonight and spoke to him about how I feel, he told me I'm annoying him, and that I woke him up, and told me to go away, put the phone down, then declined it when I tried to call back. I'm pregnant with his...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, Ladies would you date and could you fall in love with/spend the rest of your life with a guy who is overweight?
For the record I have already lost approx 50 lbs and continue to lose weight. Hypertension going down too. However it will take time for the body marks to go away as you can see them here. I'm 6'3 and I do have a penis...
t-8900
Yoda Age: 36 How do I stop being obsessed with being viewed as pretty/beautiful at the expense of my personality?
I came out of a traumatic relationship so that doesn’t help my self esteem but it seems when I like a guy, my only concern is how I look. I want them to think I’m beautiful sexy etc to a point I feel like I’m performing...
Anonymous
(30-35) Was it wrong of me to tell my coworkers to try to encourage this girl at work who has really low self esteem and is very shy?
So I got to know this girl and we kind of talked for a while and she sort of showed me her dark side (that she struggles with really low self esteem in general and has a very low sense of self worth). She’s pretty...
Anonymous
(30-35) Self-Esteem Exercise: Can you make a list of all the achievements you've accomplished in your life so far?
A girl's YouTube video I just watched suggested this as a way to start "loving yourself" more and appreciating who you are more. Reflect on your achievements. Write down all the things you've accomplished so far in life...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 What I Learned From My 9 Ex-Girlfriends (Part 1)
So, me being the inferior F-grade height I am, combined with being ugly, dark-skinned, having hypothyroidism (thus effortlessly overweight), as well as having had a Precious Puberty, which lead to at least two of these...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 I hate my ex boyfriend. How do I move forward?
Okay so I have been in the process of healing for a few years. I went through something very traumatic. During a time where I was secretly suicidal and had already had multiple people die in my family, my (then) boyfriend...
Anonymous
(25-29) What's wrong with me?
Im isolating myself from everyone, i feel like everyone is against me and out to get me, my boyfriend keeps threatening to leave me because i refuse to leave home to see him, everyone is a bother to me and I've isolated...
Anonymous
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